"The passing years, the older age, do indeed give us something worth enduring, even the many hardships, humiliations, and painful struggles of life. Not only do they give experience, because experience alone has little educational value, as we see everywhere in life: people, even with certain tragic experiences, make the same fatal mistakes, even if they know the consequences in advance. No, the great advantage of old age is that we can build up a system out of our experience, if we are not quite stupid or mean, and do not wish to be the gray hair clowns that people laugh at and despise in our old age! Like the wanderer who, in his wanderings, has become acquainted with a complex mountain system, who, on reaching the highest peak, sees the structure of a landscape, who examines the geological laws of a continuous series of mountain peaks, we too, with the passing years, see the system in everything that happens in our lives and in the lives of others. This overview, which only the passing of years can bring, is the greatest satisfaction we can gain in learning about things human and mundane.
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The passing years, the older age, do indeed give us something worth enduring, even the many hardships, humiliations, and painful struggles of life. Not only do they give experience, because experience alone has little educational value, as we see everywhere in life: people, even with certain tragic experiences, make the same fatal mistakes, even if they know the consequences in advance. No, the great advantage of old age is that we can build up a system out of our experience, if we are not quite stupid or mean, and do not wish to be the gray hair clowns that people laugh at and despise in our old age! Like the wanderer who, in his wanderings, has become acquainted with a complex mountain system, who, on reaching the highest peak, sees the structure of a landscape, who examines the geological laws of a continuous series of mountain peaks, we too, with the passing years, see the system in everything that happens in our lives and in the lives of others. This overview, which only the passing of years can bring, is the greatest satisfaction we can gain in learning about things human and mundane.
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A múló évek, az idősebb életkor csakugyan adnak valamit, amiért érdemes volt elviselni az élet sok fáradtságát, megaláztatását, fájdalmas vesszőfutásait is. Nemcsak tapasztalatokat adnak, mert a tapasztalatoknak önmagukban nincs sok nevelő erejük, mint ezt az életben mindenfelé láthatjuk: az emberek, bizonyos tragikus tapasztalatok birtokában is ugyanazokat a végzetes hibákat követik el, akkor is, ha előre tudják a következményeket. Nem, az idősebb kor nagy előnye, hogy rendszert tudunk felépíteni tapasztalatainkból, ha nem vagyunk egészen ostobák vagy aljasok, s nem óhajtunk öregségünkben az emberek által kinevetett és lenézett, ősz pojácák lenni! Mint a vándor, aki egy bonyolult hegyrendszert ismert meg vándorlásai közben, s a legmagasabb csúcsra érve, átlátja egy táj szerkezetét, áttekinti a hegycsúcsok összefüggő sorozatának geológiai törvényszerűségét, úgy látjuk mi is a múló évekkel a rendszert mindabban, ami történik életünkben és mások életében. Ez az áttekintés, melyet csak az évek múlása hoz meg, a legnagyobb elégtétel, melyet az emberi és világi dolgok megismerése közben szerezhetünk.
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Anii care trec, vârsta înaintată, ne dau într-adevăr ceva ce merită să îndurăm, chiar și numeroasele greutăți, umilințe și lupte dureroase ale vieții. Nu numai că ne dau experiență, pentru că experiența singură are puțină valoare educativă, așa cum vedem peste tot în viață: oamenii, chiar și cu anumite experiențe tragice, fac aceleași greșeli fatale, chiar dacă știu dinainte consecințele. Nu, marele avantaj al bătrâneții este că putem construi un sistem din experiența noastră, dacă nu suntem chiar tembeli sau rău intenționați și nu dorim să fim măscăricii cărunți de care oamenii râd și pe care îi disprețuiesc la bătrânețe! Asemenea rătăcitorului care, în peregrinările sale, a făcut cunoștință cu un sistem montan complex, care, ajungând pe cel mai înalt vârf, vede structura unui peisaj, care examinează legile geologice ale unei serii continue de vârfuri montane, și noi, odată cu trecerea anilor, vedem sistemul în tot ceea ce se întâmplă în viața noastră și în viața altora. Această viziune de ansamblu, pe care numai trecerea anilor o poate aduce, este cea mai mare satisfacție pe care o putem obține învățând despre lucrurile umane și mondene.
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