"<p>For me, marriage is not a bond, but a social relationship. I want to be perfectly free in all my actions, steps, and movements. I couldn't stand control, jealousy, or someone criticizing my behavior. Of course I would oblige myself never to compromise the name of the man I married, never to make it hateful or ridiculous. The man should also commit to seeing her as an equal ally, not as a subordinate or a submissive and submissive spouse.</p>"