"<p>Don't wait for external events to make you happy. If the sun shines, it is good, if it rains, it is bad; if it flourishes, it is good, if it withers, it is bad; if he loves, it's good, if he doesn't, it's very bad; if I win, it's good, if I lose, it's desperately bad - that's how we live. And unfortunately, the sun rarely shines, the flower withers quickly, I rarely win, and being loved is the biggest missing item these days.</p>"