"<p>There is no more false word than "acceptance"! I will not "accept" any garden if it is weedy or full of garbage. Not even a dog if it's honeysuckle, flea-ridden, and stinky. Anything and anyone, if I love it: I take care of it. Because I see "up"! And I want to raise it where I can see it. This does not mean eternal dissatisfaction and criticism, but the natural need of the eyes of the heart.</p>"