"When we love someone, we become weak. We will be vulnerable. They can be humiliated. They are also often losers. In love, the one who loves more always loses more. The indifferent person, for whom a relationship does not "go to blood", seems stronger... We are also afraid to love because we become devoted, vulnerable. Let's say: weak... And, since love rarely glows in both of us at the same temperature, it is always harder for the one who loves more. Even if you experience more intense happiness than the other. Because after that he will be the unhappiest.
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When we love someone, we become weak. We will be vulnerable. They can be humiliated. They are also often losers. In love, the one who loves more always loses more. The indifferent person, for whom a relationship does not "go to blood", seems stronger... We are also afraid to love because we become devoted, vulnerable. Let's say: weak... And, since love rarely glows in both of us at the same temperature, it is always harder for the one who loves more. Even if you experience more intense happiness than the other. Because after that he will be the unhappiest.
""Ha szeretünk valakit, elgyengülünk. Kiszolgáltatottak leszünk. Megalázhatóak. Gyakran vesztesek is. Egy szerelemben mindig az veszít többet, aki jobban szeret. A közönyös, akinek egy kapcsolat nem "vérre megy", erősebbnek tűnik... Azért is félünk szeretni, mert odaadóvá válunk, kiszolgáltatottá. Mondjuk ki: gyengévé... És, mivel a szerelem ritkán izzik mindkettőnkben egyenlő hőfokon, mindig annak a nehezebb, aki jobban szeret. Még akkor is, ha intenzívebb boldogságot él át, mint a másik. Mert utána ő lesz a boldogtalanabb."