"<p>I can only be in harmony with another person if I am true to myself. If I betray myself, I will also get into a bad relationship with the other person. I call a bad relationship a relationship where I am vulnerable or a tyrant. Where I step into the other's soul. Where I give myself up, only to be accepted by the other. And I don't let my partner be himself. Where I become dependent, vulnerable, and in the name of "love" I do something that not only makes me suffer, but also makes me ashamed of myself. You can't love at the cost of losing myself.</p>"