"<p>The most beautiful experiences of our life do not come to us in a passive, receptive, relaxed state - although such experiences can also be enjoyable if we have worked hard for them. The most beautiful moments usually occur when someone pushes their physical or mental performance to the extreme with a strained will to accomplish some difficult but important task. So the perfect experience is something that doesn't just happen to us, but rather something that we create on purpose.</p>"