Quotes by Müller Péter

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Sometimes the pain matures better than the caress. And experiencing heartlessness opens our hearts.

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Do two people belong together? This togetherness is not decided by what kind of dangerous dramas they go through, nor by their eternal loyalty to God in the church - but by whether, despite all strife, the more developed, more sensitive soul lifts up its unhappy, feral companion, or whether it drags him down to the to the level of his own hell.

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If the latter: you must divorce immediately. If it's the former: stay and make all the bitter sacrifices. Every path that leads upwards is "moral". And it is "immoral" if it takes you to the depths.

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You cannot see for yourself how much "magical world" all people live in. No one knows about his cage.

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Letting go of someone doesn't mean your pain goes away. As long as you love it, it will hurt to miss it. This is not a problem. You can still let it go. We cry goodbye to each other, and if your love is real, it's a good cry. Being separated from anyone we love hurts. If it doesn't hurt anymore: we don't like it either. (...) Letting go does not mean that one's heart grows cold. It doesn't mean I'll forget forever. It doesn't mean indifference. Letting go means that I let him fly, land, on his own path - in the sure hope that he will find his way back to me. But as long as he's not here, I always miss him. And it hurts.

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Look only at the eyes of a real woman, and not from the outside, but from her soul. You have to feel his soul first. If you look at it from the soul, the first layer is fear, past and present wounds. If you learn to deal with this, you can see the second layer, the tenderness, the desire to caress. If you see this as well, in the third layer you see the mischief of joy, in the fourth the lightnings of anger, in the fifth the desire for harmony, in the sixth the glimmer of pleasure, and in the seventh the love that is completely Yours. Every real woman dances seven veil dances, and you are long gone if you look at the veil, the pile of breasts, or her hips. Just look at her eyes, every little secret of her completely naked being, her body rippling with joy or hunched over with pain is in her eyes.

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If you love someone, don't say a word. Listen! And this silent music sends a message in the silence. Or you know what? If you're afraid that he can't hear because he doesn't have ears yet: whistle to him! Everyone has a secret whistle. If you hear it, your heart might skip a beat.

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I need one person in my life, at least one person, with whom I am not forced to defend myself. To whom I dare to reveal the secret code of my soul. The one I let into me: this is who I am, along with all the good, bad, noble and dirty thoughts. And this is the only person I truly love. If it is true that in love the two become one and embrace each other, then there can be no private secrets, inaccessible wounds, and especially no airless, festering wounds, because they cannot fuse with each other. Only cleanliness can bring together, even surgeons know this, because even our bodies work this way. Nobody is perfect! And it cannot be expected to be, because man is not.

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Man living today cannot remain untouched by the madness he lives in, because he was born into it.

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Love and wisdom are two sides of the same coin. Inseparable.

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How can you protect yourself so that this world doesn't make you stupid, doesn't turn you completely into an animal?

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True love is not given or received, it is.

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A pianist's truly great moment is when he doesn't even know he's playing the piano.

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I am not the one I see in the mirror, but the one looking in the mirror.

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My friend can only be someone who vibrates with me at the deepest level. Because it is more than blood or any kind of emotional connection. It's something like a hunch, as if we came from the same place, and that's why my friend is the most familiar person in the world to me.

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External spinning is always a sure sign of running away from ourselves.

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If you want to get to know a person, don't look at what he says, what he wants, what he longs for - but what is the concrete step he takes, because this is always the direction in which he guesses his happiness. This is what gives his spiritual dynamics the greatest strength. You can believe, say, hope for many things, but when you come to a crossroads and have to make a decision, everyone, without exception, goes in the direction where they believe their greatest happiness!

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Life is not a crime, but a heroic enterprise. It is a struggle and warfare and a beautiful adventure in which the human spirit must triumph, primarily over its own chaos and darkness.

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If the soul consciousness awakens in someone, even if he suffers - he is happy, because he knows that everything can be taken from him, except for his love of life and the future, which is stronger than anything else.

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He who is not his own lamp: he walks in darkness. As for happiness: you can only be happy if you are free. And only the truth can set him free. And the truth is that we are all our own lanterns.

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Ordinary things only make people anxious, but the real inner tension and dissatisfaction - in a word, unhappiness - is always caused by the fact that we are not yet who we should be.

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We must know why we suffer - and we must also know that those who have suffered meaningfully do not die, but prosper.

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I can only know you if I participate in you, if I experience you from the inside. If I not only see you and know about you, but also feel you - if "I" experience with every fiber of my being what it's like to be "you". This cannot be done from the outside, only from the inside. Acquaintance is the mutual experience of "you were in me" - "I was in you". I know your secret streets, the vibrations of your soul and body, your sensitivity, your loneliness, your wildness or your fear - whether you dare to love at all. Can you give and receive? - now it actually turns out. Because what you give, you now give of yourself. You give your secrets - what you fear, what you hide, you give - and you accept that from me.

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If you want love: you have to love! If you want a companion, you must become fit for companionship.

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There is a gap between knowledge and realization: the one who jumps over it wins.

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The second we truly love is the only real moment in our lives. The rest are not. The rest are unhappy spells. Madness. Full of fear and thirst. Of course, we think the opposite. We believe that "reality" is when we live alone, with a stoned, lonely soul. Everyday life, indifference, egoism, me, mine, making money are reality. The TV, the robot, the rush, the shopping, the asphalt, the life feeling of "I have nothing to do with anyone" is a reality. And we think of love as a delusion, intoxication. When we really love, people tell us, "You're crazy, man! You're crazy!" - while an infallible voice from the depths of our souls says: "I want to stay here, because I've always wanted to be here! I want to live here, forever!" When we love each other: we sober up. We wake up. The real state of our life is when we love. We usually achieve this miracle when we give up our convulsive self-defense and start living in each other, for each other.

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Take a firm hold of your own hand, give yourself strength, and let your troubled, unhappy and fearful soul feel that it has a true friend: yourself.

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We can't tell. I'm in love, I don't eat, I don't sleep, I live in a state of enchantment, I fly with happiness, I want to commit suicide, I become beautiful, I lose weight, I'm like a madman - and I say to my beloved: "I love you!"... What is this?! ...What is "I love you"? Where is this word compared to what I live? Nowhere! Unworthy of reality! ...It shouldn't have been said! I didn't say anything less to him, but something completely different! Nothing. I should have said that I'm crazy, I want to live in you, it hurts when I don't see you, I'm afraid of you, I'm simultaneously desperate, humble, powerful, terrified, happy, miserable... My cells are thirsty for you... I want to die immediately, and I want to live with you forever!... But where does the word "I love you" come into this?!... What is a whole world in the soul is, when spoken, a worn, worthless sign. And this is the case with all our great experiences. They are unspeakable.

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You are undertaking quite a task if you want to make friends with your soul.

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Life without love is death.

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Only one thing eliminates the pain of the other's absence: if we stop loving. When we say time heals, we mean it. To forget. However, this is not possible if we really love. The lack of love can only be cured by one thing: meeting the one we love again. No other. Next year, twenty years from now, in another life. All the same. Absence lives on until we see it again. It is not his memory, but his absence that lives in us!

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Happiness is when a person has arrived, pulls in his oar and says: I've arrived, I'm not going any further.

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More and more I have the feeling that our life is a single sentence, we just can't say what it is. (...) The big meetings, the moments close to the soul, were always when I fell in love with someone. The real miracle is friendship, a real, close relationship, when time suddenly flies with us, and we have the feeling that we have already met somewhere. Sometimes a moment is worth more than a whole year.

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Friendship is the only relationship that comes about by mutual, free choice. It is not born with us, we create it. It is not contaminated by any physical relationship or interest. We don't want anything from each other - we just like being together. The birth of friendship is always accompanied by the feeling that we have met somewhere before. That I know him! It's a hunch, of course, not necessarily true. We never know what makes us at home with each other. But when I go to my friend's house: I go home.

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Usually there is one that we really like. Who is the sweetest. It is close to our soul. This is a secret that should not be disturbed. Love is deeper. Deeper than consciousness, will, desire, imagination, social expectation. Love is not a duty, not a task. It is not a state that can be induced by common sense, will, or coercion. Love: stands for freedom.

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Money eats up all noble ideas, defeats religious faith, artistic conviction, all culture, love - even love. Anyone gives you their attention, their nice words, their kindness, even their body - but if you need money, they immediately ask for it, and even if they give it, they write down the forints in their memory and involuntarily calculate the interest.

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We look for a companion in solitude, because we can't stand it for long - and if we have a companion, sooner or later the loneliness will return, because we can't stand the company either. This is the incessant self-contradiction of our "private heart". It works just like breathing: I inhale: I am just myself - I exhale: and I am with the whole... This is how we protect ourselves against suffocation. In other words: this is how we live.

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Your friend is someone you deeply understand. You can't lie to each other. You are too close.

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I could describe the world's greatest secret right now if I knew: how is love born? But I do not know. I asked the angel - but he didn't whisper. Until then, like all miracles in life, it is incomprehensible.

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Tears are the melting of frozen life.

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Dreams cannot be forced: they come if they want to.

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When I look up at the sky, for me it is not only a set of astronomical discoveries and scientific explanations, but also a wonderful set for the play of my life. They visited the Moon in vain, Gagarin saw in vain that there was only gray dust, freezing cold and weightlessness - for me, that cooled star remains: a fairy-tale Moon! He texts at night. Sometimes it makes me sad, sometimes it makes me happy.

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If you pay close attention, you may also realize that your bad feeling is not yours: you are worried instead of someone else, or someone's sorrow has passed over you and cast a shadow over your otherwise cheerful soul. When we love someone, we feel their feelings.

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Real love is when we recognize the "eye of dust" in each other.

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When people cry these days, they usually cry against their will. A tear comes out of her, despite all her intentions, and her face shows not relief, but a spasm of losing self-control: "I wanted to hold it back, but I couldn't, and now I'm bawling like an idiot." We say that the tears "escaped" from our eyes, because they must escape like a prisoner from a dark prison.

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Nowadays, a marriage or starting a family is also a pact against the world. An attempt to create an island where it will be good to live. If we don't succeed, this too will become hell, the hottest hell, because it is our last hope of salvation: if there is no such thing, there is nowhere to go.

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No closed shell can exist separately. When you love, you realize this inseparable unity: you don't know whose feelings you feel, whose thoughts you think, whose fear you fear! Even if you close your eyes, you are not alone.

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You can't love in a space suit - only naked. Those who love: defenseless.

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There is no forgetting in love. That is why it is shocking to lose the one you loved: death asks you to do something that is impossible - to forget the one with whom you are one. No one could ever do that, or if they did, they didn't really love.

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If I love you, I hide in you, I look around you. At first, it's like arriving in a foreign country, then when you accept it, you become more and more familiar. I understand what it's like to be you, another Me, and even a little bit I will be You. I can already see what hurts you, your bitter and happy memories as if they were mine. I can look out of your eyes, that's where I see myself - and get to know your past, your destiny, your joys and your obsessions. I tune in to the wavelength of your thoughts and receive the coded transmissions of your heart. If your heart beats faster, my heart will beat faster. And when you're afraid of something, I get anxious too, and maybe we can understand what we're both afraid of.

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With our eyes and, of course, with our "spiritual eyes", we not only look, but also conjure, reshape, and create. We don't know about that. We only perceive the reflected light, but we are simply not aware that we are also light emitters.

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The value of a person is not determined by his mind, his education, his power or his talent, but by the warmth that flows from his being. In other words, the presence of love can be felt even with closed eyes.

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Someone can live next to you, but if your hearts are not on the air, you remain strangers even if you hold each other's hands spasmodically. But if the heart begins to give, the distance can be another point on Earth: they answer it.

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Gather strength, process the memories of your past and pay attention, because where you are broken, you will be strong, where you have lost, you will be invincible. The True Man does not run away from his past, no matter how dark it was, because his failures become active ingredients, his defeats become triumphs - his tragedies mature into greatness.

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You will find the one you love sooner or later, simply because you are in tune with them.

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The more real the love, the farther it affects in space and time.

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A living word is that which bleeds. Sometimes just as much as a pricked fingertip. The person himself gets scared when he says it. Even if you read it. What comes from deep is always bloody. What is natural inside - that life is blood - is scary on the surface. "Ouch, you shouldn't say that!" "This should not be made public!" It causes protest. Reconciliation. - And at the same time joy!

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We have nothing to say about the dead word - most of the time we say it. The dead word can be beautiful, clever, artistic, but there is no blood in it. It doesn't come "from there", from inside, from the "beating heart". We always say dead words instead of something, and this something is the truth of our being. The problem with her is not that she is not smart or beautiful - the problem with her is that she kills.

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We all live in our own worlds - and there is no through-passage.

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Another world! With an endless past, memories, unknown feelings. Entering the soul of another person is a greater adventure than stepping onto an alien planet. An incomprehensible world! Our words are the same, but they mean something different to him.

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My problem is not that love is the most important word for humanity. I am sure that everything depends on the understanding of this word! The fate of man and community. Plus, most lies stick to it. We don't have another lied, licked, misrecognized word like love - in its name we have cultivated the biggest scandals, destroyed each other, destroyed nations - and at the same time, we still miss this... we don't even know, we... just that, that I miss you.

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The essence of love is togetherness. The with you. The with us.

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You can't talk about love alone.

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What should I be happy about? you ask. That you live, that you are, that you are immortal. To enjoy fresh water, bread, rain and warm sun. And the snow, and the ice, and the fact that you are strong, and if tomorrow everything is washed away by the river, you will still be able to pull yourself together. If necessary, from scratch. That the endless sky is above your head - and beyond what you can no longer see with your eyes, there is your country.

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My friend is the one to whom my soul is open.

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Friendship is the closest connection between souls.

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Who you see yourself to be: that's what you will become.

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He who loves, his heart flutters. His life is colorful and sunny. Those who don't love are walking in landscapes where the sun doesn't shine.

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If I love you, I will see in you what you rarely see. (...) If you love me, you can get secrets out of me that I didn't even know about myself.

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Love means looking up in each other.

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We don't know where our heart is until it hurts.

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Those who have a spark of love begin to think in the plural.

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Love endures everything - not one thing: that it passes. We love - and it's over?! Is it over, forever?! Will it never happen again?! - This is unfathomable! Unbearable! It is far worse than physical pain or death itself, because it is simply unnatural.

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Our true face is invisible. Only with the heart, sometimes.

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There is no better medicine for grief and aching wound than to not even think about it.

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You know, if I'm pushed into the well, I haven't even reached the bottom, but I'm already thinking while I'm falling, how am I going to get out?!

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What a cursed, rag thing this famous Love is, it's nothing more than draining the life force out of each other, and not for happiness, dammit! we hunger for each other's flesh like cannibals.

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Don't forget the colored pebble that I pressed into your hand at the beginning of the journey, which is only yours. You got it from me to always know who you are. I gave the stone because it never decays. It contains my message, the secret code of your magical power. Squeeze it and keep it in your hand! Whatever happens to you, the magic stone will save you from all troubles and dangers. If you understand what is written in it.

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There is sometimes a bigger secret in the twinkling of two eyes than in the history of twenty years of marriage.

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I have no friends - my soul is my friend. This does not mean that I am completely alone, in a friendless solitude, but that my friendship with others depends entirely on my friendship with myself.

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We have no words for the experience of unity experienced with nature. They are in something that is in them. They contain the Moon, the Sun, the stars, and secret currents imperceptible to humans. This is Love.

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We escape from the prison of our lonely selves to relationships - and from relationships we escape to our lonely selves.

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Where I lift you, where you lift me. If I'm down, you have to get down for me. Even though you've gotten higher, you can't go on alone. Half-souls are not accepted by the spirit world. And since we are also attracted to the worlds below, the infernal circles of the soul, and despite all our torment, we love to be there - the relationship is still the greatest human drama in existence. Eternal struggle, grappling, avoiding, accusing each other, raising and pulling down.

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Love dissolves self-boundaries. To love you, I have to experience you. To experience you, I have to hide inside you. In order to hide in you, I have to dissolve. I have to sacrifice myself so that it is not me, but us, from now on.

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No matter where you are or when I see you. Even if it's just once in my life, I love you. I don't have to live with you, I don't have to see, touch, hug, caress you every day. It's enough to catch a glimpse of you in the train window. Or you don't even need that much. Just knowing how you are.

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I feel that I love you! Don't you feel it? Maybe it's just me and you don't feel that I do love you? I lie in it, my heart beats faster, and you question me mercilessly? Is there a more honest sign of love than someone feeling loved?!

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If a husband cheats on his wife, but not so much that he wants to leave her, he would stay by her side, but it hurts the woman, it hurts a lot, because her sense of self as a woman is hurt. (...) If in this case "only" the woman is injured, it can be repaired, albeit with difficulty. Because even though the wounded woman condemns in her first impulse, the wise Man living in her can still save her, who knows that beyond sexual desires there is a deeper alliance between you that has not been damaged. However, if the Human is injured, then there is no more. Then there is nothing to talk about, because this is a sure sign that there is a lack of true love deeper than male-female attraction.

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The moment we fall in love with a person, we hide in them and begin to see them. If you only love me for a short time, you will see who lives inside me and you can read my past and my future.

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There are two kinds of dignity. One: what the world gives to man. The other: what a person gives to himself.

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The greatest joy of spiritual love is to be able to give. Just as the sun does not look at how many buds burst into its light, because it lives in the ecstasy of its own fire, so also spiritual love is bathed in the joy and freedom of selflessness. He does not depend on anyone, and at the same time he knows that everything belongs to him. When one experiences the state of spiritual love, he sees that no one and nothing can be gained, but neither can he be lost. (...) This is the greatest, most complete and happiest timeless embrace.

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I can only be in harmony with another person if I am true to myself. If I betray myself, I will also get into a bad relationship with the other person. I call a bad relationship a relationship where I am vulnerable or a tyrant. Where I step into the other's soul. Where I give myself up, only to be accepted by the other. And I don't let my partner be himself. Where I become dependent, vulnerable, and in the name of "love" I do something that not only makes me suffer, but also makes me ashamed of myself. You can't love at the cost of losing myself.

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There are times when a human relationship expires. Friends understand this and can acknowledge without disappointment that they rarely or never see each other from now on. It is a great, great gift of freedom that we don't even have a bad feeling after the divorce - we look back on each other with gratitude.

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But when the conductor calls: the lonely instruments suddenly find each other, fall in love with each other - and the Music starts. Life is born. This is when you feel what an enormous feat the composer and all the musicians have accomplished: they have brought a living world out of the chaos of sounds.

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You love him differently in each role. A mother's love is different, a friend's love is different, not to mention love... There are many kinds of love. But only the one who can play all the roles can really love her!

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I'd rather be disappointed, if necessary, a hundred times a day, than to be constantly distrustful of everyone and consider life a hell, in which monsters live... I love to live! And let my life be joyful, sometimes with disappointment, than unhappy from the beginning, but without disappointments!

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From time to time, someone dies in us and someone else is born. What is past must become past, and if you don't want to, then you have to make it so with conscious work. Time itself does not make it so - it must be helped. Why? Because only the body has time - the soul does not.

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If you ask where you can find true love these days, I would answer without hesitation that it is in funeral homes. There, after the fact, when the story is over, we find out that HE was THE ONE! When we miss him, when our story moves from everyday boredom and fighting to the Eternal Light, we realize who we have lost.

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Sometimes the one we love the most slips past us in life as if standing in the rolled-down window of an oncoming express train. You ride to the right, he to the left, they just waved to each other, with beating hearts: - Hello!... Hello!... Or Even?... Me too!... God be with you!... When will we meet?... You don't hear the answer anymore.

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This is the hardest thing these days, don't you know?... How I miss - not even love - but goodness. When someone is nice to us, we suddenly feel warm. Have you ever felt it?... How an indescribably pleasant feeling passes over you. In fact, you will be surprised that such a thing exists at all. One good word, one good deed - and you almost feel dizzy... Have you ever felt it?

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A person who has escaped from a bad relationship rarely finds another partner. Not only because he is injured, but also because his soul is distorted. It still bears the traces of unrevealed indignities. "Not him" for a long time. He is crippled. It bears the distorting marks of an evil gaze. Suspicious. A misogynist or a misogynist. (...) First of all, you have to process the past. This not only means that the wounds must heal, and the soul must let go of the painful memories of the hurts, but above all, you must examine how much the past relationship has made you worse. You need to get rid of the effects of a bad spell. You have to tear off the distorted mask that a bad relationship put on you. You have to find your true face. And, above all, you need to regain your strength! This is another important experience: you can lose an immeasurable amount of energy in a soul-crushing relationship. You come out tired from a world where you were not loved or were "loved" selfishly. Exhausted.

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A humble man wading through the flood waters with his bat or backpack is a sad sight, but not so revealing: it seems that he has always lived close to trouble, even if the flood has taken everything away, sooner or later he will get back up somehow. But when the false happiness collapses, there is always something revealing about it: as if the scenery of a fairy-tale world were blown away by a hurricane or washed away by an indifferent sea tide.

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I have one life, as it began, so it ends. My self-awareness came from nothing and will soon become nothing again. I wasn't and I never will be. I live like someone who woke up from a dream for a moment, but only to realize that he will have to sleep forever. And since everyone threatens my world - the other people are all my enemies. I live once, never again, let me have what I want!

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Note, the termination of any emotional connection is similar to the experience of death. We do not experience that we have left the range of a familiar radiation, but that it has all ceased forever. No more sending, no more receiving. This is the great tragedy of emotional love. If I can't touch it, if I can't feel it - then it doesn't exist. He's gone, he's gone, he's dead.

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When my private heart and your private heart realize that they are together!... When we realize that in you and in me too there is a painfully separate, but still connected, inextricably shared Life, and this is what makes our hearts beat - this is love.

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When you love, time stops. Every true hug wants to last forever, and I can't let go of the one I love, because then I'll fall out of paradise again, and my life will be empty again.

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Those who love experience not only happiness, but also an immeasurable amount of suffering. Everything is transient. Sometimes we don't even mind. If our hearts are cold and we don't like being with someone, we count the time: let it pass. Only if we love would we stop time. Then it would be nice if life lasted forever. Love is the only state that our enchanted soul knows is ETERNAL. "You are mine and I am yours" is a timeless state.

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In his prayer, man asks God to perform a miracle. By miracle he means that the Lord should step over the inexorable laws and change the difficult reality. Ease the heavy burdens of life, soften the pain, help in the realization of your thoughts, hopes and desires. In Christian terms, prayer asks for grace instead of law. And grace is a miracle - in this rigid world of laws.

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The basis of all miracles is love.

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One lie makes you a liar on every other point! This is the truth of the law of love, because life is unity. A single chain. And if one eye is broken, it is no longer a chain.

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Not present. It's just a word. An abstract concept, it doesn't really exist. I'm writing right now, but that just means that I'm in a train of thought, trying to freeze into words what has been in my mind for a long time, and I'm waiting for what else will come to me from my future. But even a thousandth of a second of me is constantly changing: the future becomes the past without being present. Our life is like a film strip in which there are no still images.

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They tend to ask for forgiveness from those who have power. Those who don't have it, carry their hurt, philosophize and fiddle with their conscience: no one asks for forgiveness. Only the weak chew on their grievances and lick their wounds. (...) It is a valid truth that only the weak in us are hurt - the strong never! Where a person is strong: you cannot be offended.

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Being a parent means that one is constantly acting and examining with one's whole visible and invisible being - what is good and clean in us, and what is bad and dirty: we pass it on. We are constantly on the air, even if we don't know it. In fact, especially then! (...) What you have spoiled in yourself, you continue to give. Not only as a genetic inheritance, but much more as a spiritual pattern, sin and virtue, a quality of your being unknown even to you. But what you redeem in yourself - you can also redeem in your offspring.

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When the umbilical cord breaks, the blood vessels are divided, the blood flow turns, and the fetus, which until now lived with the mother's heart, now gets an independent heart, its own masked center of being, which from then on tirelessly beats the rhythm of Life. The new being, like a small car, runs off the assembly line of Creation. From then on, sometimes violently, sometimes peacefully with a beating heart, revving up or idling, but also operating on its own - the mystery is done. Life was born.

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You should never believe that what you see is the ultimate truth. No. The truth is always further. Beyond the edge of darkness, which of course only seems dark because your eyes can't see there yet.

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Sometimes the soul ruminates on yesterday, sometimes on the next minute, it pays attention to a hundred things at the same time, and it selects a thousand different impressions, while an emotional wave just surfacing also colors the confused state, which is disturbed, sad, hopeful, terrified, dull, anxious, according to what grabbed him from the whirlwind of turbulent energies.

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The crucial difference between a smart person and a wise person is that a smart person lacks sacrifice. Wisdom begins when one enters a state of wonder. He is amazed, delighted, his mouth remains open - and he cries. From shock and beauty.

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Becoming the master of our destiny is not a one-time act. You have to fight for it again and again every day and every hour. There is a deep gap between recognition and implementation.

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Whoever looks deep within himself sees that there, in the place where love resides, there is only one empty throne.

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You cannot walk on two roads at the same time. Because one has to be betrayed for the other.

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The face of an adult can never be as honest as that of a small child, precisely because his ego was formed in the mirror system of the world, and from then on - without realizing it - he lives in a state of split consciousness; he smiles not when outside, not when he yawns, cries, is bored, hates, rages, loves, demands, or is indifferent outside, as inside. And this is not only when others are there, but also when no one is there. Looking outwards and living outwards is the ego's strongest gaze: it itself is made up of mirrors, and it wants to conform to these mirrors forever. A person shows his true face only when he becomes self-absorbed. When he freaks out in anger, when he sobs in utter despair, when he screams in pain, or obeying some irresistible compulsion, he starts laughing loudly. Always when the glass overflows - when the power of the ego is broken.

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There are two types of conversations. One when I speak for myself. When I want to assert myself. You can gain power with words, a world that is only about me, in which I am the important thing: what I think, I feel, I live, I hurt - a play in which I am the protagonist. He who says his own: he is alone. He lives in a world where no one has anything to do with him. The situation in which we live, which can also be called: the world of unlove, cannot be described more precisely than this. He who only speaks his mind does not need a friend, brother, or wife. He just needs an audience. The other type of conversation is when someone is looking for a companion. This is very rare.

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No matter how gloomy, swirling storm we get into, where we can no longer see anyone, not even each other; no matter what earthquake, tornado, tsunami or hurricane we fly through - let's know about each other! How we come and how we are together.

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The human soul is like a richly constructed organ: all its pipes play.

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Second thoughts are always good. Or the third! We must always look below what comes to our mind first, because it is not our thought, but the world's. When we look below the surface, we can glimpse the deeper, denied truth that is ours!

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We learn to speak in vain. Because at first we can't even say what lives in the depths of our soul. We keep quiet or say something else instead. And if you finally manage to say it with great difficulty: the other person doesn't understand. He understands the words, of course. The sentences too. He just doesn't understand what lies behind our words, i.e. the essence.

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Man, as a learner of Nature: he follows an idea. Man as the master of Nature: an obsession. Because nothing can be known without knowing oneself, and those who know themselves only superficially know that there is a selfish and greedy ego in them, and there is a higher being whose goal is not possession and power, not "subjugation of nature", but humanity, goodness and love. Everyone knows this, without exception, because there is no moment in life when you don't have to decide who you serve: life or death, light or darkness, blessing or curse, love or selfishness, self, or the truth.

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The child is excited by magic, and the more we preserve our childhood's first wonder at the world, the less deep down we give up on the fact that we can somehow influence the hard, harsh, indifferent and powerless reality!

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There is a seemingly timeless state where we are completely left to ourselves. And what's more, right above the chasm, in the most difficult, most dangerous situation. In this case, only two things help. One originates from the past, from everything that has already happened, and that can be found here, in the swirling nothingness. The other sends a message from the future, from where there is nothing yet, it can only be... in fact, it will be.

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The same scientist who takes the match out of the hands of his little child - because he loves and fears him - gives the hydrogen bomb and genetic technology to humanity - which he neither loves nor fears.

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If you think of someone, you are immediately there, if something happens to them, you feel it immediately, and if you love someone deeply, you step out of time and continue to live eternity.

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There is no problem in the world that cannot be helped by a miracle.

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Only women with a mature soul are able to overcome their female roles and realize that they are independent and free beings whose destiny - although it is connected with them - is not only the Man's.

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It is a sad fact - based on my experience - that there is no woman today whose sense of self as a woman has not been violated. We don't even notice, because the basic situation between the two sexes is inherently offensive to women: if I don't see more in my woman than what humanity has seen in her for thousands of years: it's offensive. If I approach him, if I don't listen to him, if I don't respect him enough to discuss the big questions of my life with him: it's insulting. If I don't discover its meaning, its dignity: it's insulting. And whether that woman is a stray street girl, a department store cashier or even Princess Diana belonging to the English royal family - she cannot get away with her life without harming her womanhood.

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Life is nothing but the story of the unconscious contents of our soul.

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Whoever makes himself dependent on the outside world will sooner or later be unhappy.

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Respect your mistakes, your sufferings and your delusions - they are needed for the great final weaving!

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Being human is hard. Human destiny means a struggle, a life that is accompanied by fear and suffering from birth to death. And this will become clear at the moment of arrival. Nowadays, when the sky above our heads has been stolen along with the meaning of life, it is not appropriate to talk about it. The darker a society is, the less it accepts the tragic reality of human life, the more it tries to sugarcoat and wrap difficulties in colorful paper.

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We are only happy with a fulfilled dream when we ourselves are fulfilled. And we can only say that an experience is ours if we fought for it.

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It is only possible to "do good" to the other person if we don't even notice it. The real "good deed" can be nothing other than bringing the other person back to himself; we make him realize his own strength, his destiny-solving power - ultimately, we teach him to love himself.

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Now it's about you! Only about you, in whom the "I am" experience lives. People come and go, but you stay. You are your constant companion. He also accompanies you in your dreams. You will wander there as well, and you will realize that it will remain even after your death. And now comes the point. If that's the case, it's impossible not to be good with yourself!

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Today's society is so sick that one should not associate with it. I also advise you: Go on a private road!

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An imagined world is constantly working in me, and that is the most important thing. This life here is grey, silly and stupid!... I don't know if there is another one... There certainly is, because I am constantly in it.

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All actions without love create suffering.

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I'll run away if possible. (...) I leave even if they don't like me and even if I don't like someone.

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It was not known whether he loved anyone. He didn't say, he didn't show. Maybe he didn't even live... I never saw his heart. He liked to be alone. He didn't miss anyone. If I visited, he was happy for me - if I left, he didn't mind. - "Hello!" - he said when I entered him, and when I left him, he greeted me in the same way: - "Hello!" This somewhat singsong, long "u" made his greeting completely formal and impersonal, as if he were saying goodbye to a stranger, out of sheer habit. He didn't miss me. It didn't matter to him whether he saw it yesterday or months ago.

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There are many worlds, and the real one is always the one we tune into.

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I already see that I am not a lonely being who belongs to no one, but someone's child. He is the creature of a spiritual Father who lives in me. And I say not my will be done, but yours. Because no matter what your will is, even if it means not only pleasant things for me, but also trouble and trials, I still know that it is a Good Will - because you love me, and I love you too.

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If I say I love you but I don't know you, then I don't love you, because I don't even know who you are. I am projecting someone into you who is not you, but only lives in my world of dreams and desires. I put it on your face, I see into your soul, and I believe that

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you are. I mistook you for someone.

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Notice how time flies when you're happy. "Hey, it's evening!" And if you are very happy, then time not only "flies", but also stops. There isn't. You are in a dimension where there are no clocks. There is no tomorrow. Not yesterday either. There is no "now" either - because once you know that there is "now", you immediately start to fear that it will all pass.

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Many of us carry wounds that time does not heal.

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Harmony is another name for Love - because this is the only state of being where I vibrate undisturbed with the other: we are both together while at the same time being ourselves.

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It's not enough to be clean. It's not enough to be innocent. In today's world, we need self-awareness and strength not to fall with the falls and lose our souls in a mean world.

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All morals, all expectations, all customs, all manners and education are false if they do not teach you to listen to your own heart in the decisive moments. To the voice of your own conscience. For no one else, because those who want good may not be good for you either. In the last days, you have only one master left: your own heart! All books, all advice and education are invalid. It's only the whisper of your heart - if you still hear its voice - what to do.

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Only those who trust themselves can trust others. And the basis of faith in others is unshakable self-confidence. The two faiths: one. If a person loses any faith, he becomes like a bird with half a wing. He can't fly.

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Those whose ego is hard will have a hard time experiencing any change.

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Your soul is heavy, your life is also heavy, but you discover that you have wings! You shake them slowly, start moving them, moving them faster and bolder - and you take off! And you leave the earth, the swamp, and all sorrow, trouble, and difficulty. And you fly! You fly! The blue sky is yours. And the starry sky. Infinity... Nothing binds. Neither your own soul, nor a world rushing to ruin, nor a sick society. I'm free - it's a joy. And what is an even more wonderful feeling: you have finally found your way home!

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What you call memory lives here and acts timeless and alive and shapes life. It's hard to imagine that every moment of your current life is not only suggested by your past, but also by your future: you guess what you should be, but it's hard to succeed. Memories not only push from the past, but also pull from the future.

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If I couldn't forgive someone, it was always unpleasant for me. Very unpleasant. I was carrying such clawed feelings inside me, which primarily hurt me. They poisoned my soul and constantly disturbed me. It is not pleasant to live in anger, resentment, a dull desire for revenge, in the fire of any kind of suppressed emotions.

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All life is a struggle! Without exception, all life and all destiny is a struggle and warfare: the struggle of the dark, the light, the worthy and the unworthy, life and death, love and demonic selfishness.

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Secrets are covered by veils, and if you set out to discover them, the veils are revealed in front of you in a row, you know more and more and you know more and more - but the final moment never comes, when you reach the innermost place, where you can finally embrace the Secret of secrets - because it is always inside.

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We have two divine qualities. The Secret and the Light. The Secret: the depth of our soul. And Light is the light of our understanding, which makes the surface glisten. It glimmers, but does not reveal the deepest secret for a single moment.

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If you've ever lost someone, you know that at the moment of loss, you loved them most and most truly. When you were faced with "no". When fate tears away the one we love from us, and we are left destitute, alone - in the absence, we realize how much we loved. In retrospect. And the memories come: the indifferent weekdays, the gray mornings, the tired wake-ups, the grumpy grunts, quarrels, collisions, the unpleasant evenings when nothing happened, just sitting next to each other, empty - looking back with a painful sense of absence, you see in a flash the your past and you shout:

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- How stupid I was! I didn't see what treasure I was scattering every minute and hour!... If only I had known then what I know now: that life was a gift with him! If you could come back, even just for a minute! Would I say it differently? I would see him differently, hug him differently... And I would tell him that... What?... What can't be said.

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One who loves cannot lie!

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We can last about 3-4 minutes without unity with everything - love. Then we drown. This is the reality.

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We live in each other, even in our dreams.

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A relationship can contain a variety of wars, crises, and torments. Also infidelity. Suddenly sparking wild tempers. Still, I say, it's worth doing as long as the "eye of the heart" sees through the storm clouds.

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You can only walk on water with perfect love - you can sink in imperfect love.

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Everyone needs to be loved differently. Or not to love. That's a problem too. There are souls with whom it is difficult for us to align, because they stab us exactly where it hurts. Or just the opposite: we hurt them where they are sensitive.

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When we love someone, we become weak. We will be vulnerable. They can be humiliated. They are also often losers. In love, the one who loves more always loses more. The indifferent person, for whom a relationship does not "go to blood", seems stronger... We are also afraid to love because we become devoted, vulnerable. Let's say: weak... And, since love rarely glows in both of us at the same temperature, it is always harder for the one who loves more. Even if you experience more intense happiness than the other. Because after that he will be the unhappiest.

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I have the right to look up. To the sky, to the single star visible behind the dense clouds - if there is a storm, rain or flood down there.

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We are in our own magical world.

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That's the kind of person I am - because I made myself that way.

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If I want to be a different kind of person - I have to make myself that way.

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You should not wade into the loneliness of the other.

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A shudder is a familiar sign of being touched by something great.

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The hottest hell is in families where they love each other.

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Fly like a bird above your present - and look back as you soar freely: the sky is blue, and your troubles become pitifully small below... You are walking in your future.

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If you really love someone, you know immediately if you hurt them - not because you see it on their face, but because you feel the hurt yourself at the moment of the hurt, it hurts you too - and you know that it shouldn't have happened. Not only for him, but for you too, immediately.

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Love has only one law. It's called freedom.

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Love cannot pass away - it remains. This is why no one can be comforted when they lose someone they love. All comfort is weak and false. Especially the phrase "time will heal your wounds". Not true. It's not a wound that heals. The feeling of pain may diminish over time, but the feeling of being torn apart remains.

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What I want to say about love is not what I feel or think, nor what I have read elsewhere. (...) What is worth saying is there, in the depths of our souls. And if we really want to meet, we can only meet there, in the depths of our souls, because that's where we connect - the real meetings happen there.

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Man is happiest where he lives closest to love.

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We are born, and with the head of a child we still believe that a fairy tale, a wonderland is waiting here - then we realize that it is all just rubbish, tiring reality.

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My mother said: you have to love people with their faults. We only know how true this is when we lose someone.

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I suspect that there are as many shades of happiness as there are people on earth.

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You can recognize a real angel by his disposition. An inexplicable serenity emanates from his being incessantly. A state of mind that a person only experiences for a few moments when the sun shines.

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Indifference is cold. Hate is cold, passion is hot... Love is warm.

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Man's companion: missing. Not only if you have lost him in death, but also if you have never met him. Never, in his entire life!... The person without a companion is used to being alone, to living spiritually among strangers, to loneliness, like an Eskimo to the polar cold - but the soul still knows that a piece is missing: the other half is missing . And it hurts not only when we lose it, but also when we don't find it!

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There is no purity that is ignorant of transgressions. And there is no sin that does not yearn for purity.

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What we call knowledge today is nothing more than the knowledge of the world outside our soul, and the means of knowing our current science is "objective".

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Thinking was developed by the self in order to find its way around the world, and therefore thinking cannot be expected to think against its master, the self.

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We look to the sky in vain, because the kingdom of God is not there, but within us, if we realize it.

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A man who is still looking for a desirable woman in his elderly wife will sooner or later get a divorce.

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What is durable is not what resists time, but what changes wisely with it.

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A grown man who clings to the ideas of his childhood is not a backbone, but an imbecile fool.

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There is no destruction, only eternal transformation.

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The part of our soul that has identified itself with the body lives in Time: our decaying cells, our wrinkled skin, our aging body instills in us the bitterness of transience: our future brings the inevitable death, the failure of all our desires and aspirations.

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In one bright moment, man wants to stop Time, which does not move, but rotates with us in an expanding or even narrowing circle, as if we were sitting on a Ferris wheel: we shine above, we feel the proximity of the Sun and the stars, and then we sink again into the depths, faith , into the depths of the loss of strength and self-confidence, which St. John of the Cross calls: the dark night of the soul.

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Dark is the unconscious. Dark is evil. The two are inseparable. We can also say about humans: there is darkness in them. Such a person can be both stupid and evil. He does not know what he is doing, and what one does without knowing it cannot be good. Because it's dark. If he knew, he wouldn't do it. If there was light in it, it wouldn't.

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The truth is the only thing you don't have to believe in! In everything else, yes - but the truth is there! You can make sure it's real. You can experience it, you can prove it, you can know it.

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Physicists of our time have discovered what Chinese metaphysics has taught since ancient times, that there is nothing but drama! Permanent change born in a constant struggle.

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There is a point, an innermost point, where no one can come with us. Just as our tooth hurts only us, just as no one can take over our mental suffering, and just as at the gate of death - we receive any kind of relief help from here and there, we ultimately have to cross it alone, so in the strongest emotional whirlwind we can only hold on to ourselves!

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Patience is an attribute of our Self, who does not look at the world through the eyes of those doomed to death, He is timeless, and sees even fleeting life in a different way: instead of short stages, he perceives huge processes, and knows that the time for everything will come, if the situation is worth it, inside and out. on him.

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Impatience is a sure sign that a person is dominated by a narrow self, who does not have time and therefore wants everything immediately. And he's right, because even if he's lucky, the world is only twenty-twenty-five thousand days long, it's not worth waiting for!

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The inner intention always precedes the outer act, and therefore every person, without exception, is not only a victim of history, but also responsible!

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In the depths of our soul lives the sunken shipwreck of the obsessions of countless ages, and the only reason it does not surface is because our current ego is perfectly embedded in the reality system in which it lives. Like a sponge, he absorbs the written and unwritten rules of current ageism, and while he forgets the eternal human in himself, he becomes like a mannequin whose value is determined entirely by the fashion items attached to him, or with an even better analogy: like a computer programmed by others.

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Everyone is happy and unhappy differently, according to their character, destiny and even their age.

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Although he longed for this meeting, now that he is finally here, he feels that he has to run away from here! Go on, go on! "You have to finally find what you're really looking for, and as long as THAT is missing, you don't need anyone! Until then, everything is just a lie, a delusion, a cowardly escape! . . . LET GO, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!"

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Not because it's over - the past can be depressing - but because it's all gone. There is joy in it! Liberated, tingling pleasure. These images are nothing more than the belated waves of a stone thrown into water a long time ago.

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Only our brains were developed! We were too smart, too sensible, we already knew everything... except living and loving!

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Don't leave me alone! Go after him and observe how a person who meets the real Miracle for the first time in his life behaves.

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I restrained myself miserably and convulsively, even if it made me suffer more than he did! I'd rather be in pain, I'd rather be lonely and dry and joyless and unhappy than be happy with him! ...BECAUSE I DO NOT LIKE IT!...

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This alarmed look passes by your face, but for now you don't turn around, you are getting used to the new realization, which you have always guessed, but perhaps you have never felt so clearly; that you are also involved in the narrated life, it cannot be seen in person through a keyhole; heroes look back at you and want something from you, sometimes with such force that you carry their memory with you even in your dreams.

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In love, the angels say, there are no secrets not only because you don't tell them, but also because if the love is real, the other person knows everything about you even if you never tell them. If you have really loved someone, you have been in it, you feel what they feel - and you know not only what they have done, but also what they will do next.

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The stronger the love, the more sensitive it is.

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It is likely that love knows no bounds. But it's not something we have to learn because it's within us. Deep in our soul, buried. Learning is nothing but liberation. Just as a rescue team brings the living to the surface from the depths of a mine collapse, maturing suffering can free our still alive and beating hearts from the ruins of selfishness.

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All hugs without self-surrender are liars.

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Everything is yours - says a good mother - if you ask for more, I won't give it because I will spoil it. You'd rather bang outside my door than be a mean person.

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There are many kinds of love. Paternal, maternal, fraternal, friendly, neighborly. Family love, love of children... These are all strong ties. Especially motherly love. But in its intensity, nothing can be compared to the way a man and a woman - if they belong together - can love each other!

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There is one person, only one, with whom you live forever: yourself.

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Love is a natural state. It is like air to a carnal man. And when we are born, we miss this "air". Without love, we are short of breath. Our whole being trembles in solitude.

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The more deeply we love someone, the less important their appearance is.

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Friendship does not come from our emotions, but from the innermost being of our being.

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If you are afraid of a dark forest, you must go into the dark forest. Fear must be faced. It really does use something. Because, as they say, man is afraid of his own imagination.

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There is the spoken text, which we hear with our ears and understand with our mind - and there is the "subtext", that is, the essence, which we do not hear and do not understand. Or we don't want to understand! There is such a thing. That a person, out of mental laziness, cowardice or self-interest, does not want to understand what the other is really telling him - he prefers to believe the lie.

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A mother always knows her child better! He knows your secret thoughts, he can decipher your silence, your smile, your pout, the puckering of your lips, or those half-sentences that have a special meaning.

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The sacrifice (...) is self-defeating. This means everyday Heroism. Every day you have to sacrifice something in yourself for your goal.

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Anything that you don't like in your being (aggression, cowardice, laziness, fear, etc.) and you want to change is only possible in this way: with a lot of work. With asceticism. With regular practice. (...) To realize all this, or in other words, to own it, to be you - a lot of work is required. (...) Only what we sacrifice will be ours.

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Man, if he can no longer love: move on! It's not pity for anything but love. And that - if it really was - cannot be lost.

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Character is nothing more than the organic integration of many repeated actions and habits into the soul and body.

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Read a few true words, wise thoughts, and beautiful poems every day. One that was written for you. Listen to music born not of chaos, but of a higher order. It is easy to distinguish because the latter is beautiful. Restore yourself daily. The atmosphere you live in is dirty. It is full of negative transmission, suffocating, unhappy, dirty thoughts. But you look up and tune yourself to the rays of the sun. And don't forget to look up at the sky in the evening to remind yourself again and again: you are a child of infinity.

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We do different than what we say, we say different than what we think, and we feel different than what we know with our common sense... And we have no idea that these spiritual layers have slipped inside us, like the soil above a volcano.

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What people leave alone, what they don't care about, gets dirty... It's the same with our souls. And dirt attracts dirt. Dark thought to darkness, fear to fear, vanity to vanity, selfishness to blindness and death. What you tune yourself to, you take in. You will be its medium, tool, accomplice and implementer. This law also applies to the invisible world. In our good moments, we have angels around us. Even if we don't see them, we feel them.

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We are connected to the visible and invisible world. We are both senders and receivers. If your brain is overwhelmed by a murderous impulse, you become a medium for all the murderous, destructive forces of the world.

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Our I-consciousness is nothing more than a single wave on the sea, like a leaf on the Tree of Life - like a part of some divine Whole. The Spirit can only be understood in this limitless context.

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Every man has a costume and a mask, which he wears with greedy ambition and cunning self-defense. And the bottom line: you have no idea that you're wearing it! He doesn't know about it. This is not only unpleasant, but also very funny. He lies to himself, but with such hypnotic power that he forgets that he is not at all who he thinks he is. That's why it's not worth arguing with him about faith, ideas, or worldview, because he doesn't live it anyway. He lives something completely different and believes in something different than what he thinks he believes. And there is nothing more dangerous than warning someone that they are living a lie.

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There is much beauty in grief. And in the change, in the farewell, in the pain, I always feel the presence of the higher world. Our souls are never as close to eternal Reality as in the cemetery. Here madness, delusion, and falsehood cease, and existence becomes just as naked as at the moment of birth. There is no more rich and poor, enemy and friend - the walls come down and mindless procrastination ceases.

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When I'm in good shape, I live like a drunkard. Invisible to the eye and undetectable by instruments, but I float a little above the ground. I love to exist.

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Our tradition lacks humor. The laughter. The self-absorbed serenity. Our souls are attuned to trouble. For grief, suffering, gloomy tragedies. For hatred, revenge, bitterness. And more recently, to the dry, harsh, rational, heartless, common sense.

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We were raised badly. For suffering, grief, blood, tragedy. In the East, the gods smile. In our churches there are many terrible images, blood, torment and unbearable torment.

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I would like to draw your attention to one important thing. You can only love upwards. Not down, only up. We don't love anyone because they are stupid, evil, mean, ugly, smelly, unpleasant, weak, cowardly - but because they are smart, good, beautiful, pleasant, strong, brave. Even if it is not like that - if we love, we see or imagine all these values. If you say "I love you the way you are", it's not true! Because if you really love me, you see me as more than what I am. If you love someone, you look up to them, you see them as more than that. In today's terms, we could say that love does not see objectively. He who loves does not see with his eyes, but with his heart.

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Seeing with the heart does not mean that I do not see your mistakes, your fallibility, sometimes even your most repulsive, most despicable qualities. It's not that I don't see your "evil", which, like all people, you couldn't or didn't want to get rid of - but that I look above all of that in you and know that you are more than your demons!

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When you're in love with someone, you see something in them that others don't. And neither will you, from the second your love ceases. It turns gray, turns ugly, becomes insignificant. To look with the eyes of the heart means to see upwards; higher and idealized.

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In a relationship, surrender is as strong as self-defense: a marriage is full of conflicts. But this drama - like all contradictions in the world - can only be resolved from a third place. This is the third place: from the top. If I can't look at my wife not only as "my wife" but also as my fellow human being, we won't have a real relationship. In fact, everything can be discussed with him only here on this human plane. Here you can heal the wounds that I inflicted on him as a man, or that he clawed into me. I can understand him here.

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When we are filled with joy - and this can happen at any time, when our wings open - we immediately feel like singing.

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Joy is when a person finds the difficult, even the very difficult, easy. Flight experience. Your soul is heavy, your life is also very heavy. All is lost. But you discover that you have wings!

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Preserving our youth is not physiologically difficult, but spiritually. Because we're screwed. We adapt to the vulgar, the unworthy. We absorb all the filth of the world and history and become dirty.

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What starts from a clean spring, eventually absorbs the garbage of time, and by the time it reaches the sea, the once crystal-bright water, from which you could drink, becomes sewage, a dirty liquid.

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Man hears not only with his ears, but also with his soul. With its own special personality.

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Every beautiful music and good line wakes you up for a moment. Remember: if you live like this, you are also an artist, even if you can't paint or write poetry. You are an artist of life. Because the most wonderful work of art is still you. And your life.

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We forget to be happy - when we still could be.

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There is no real art without transcendence. Just as there is no life without a soul and no man without a head.

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The trick of "seeing backwards" tears the soul out of its own magical spell, lends it new eyes and a new heart, and restores to it the divine power of destiny-making.

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The patient must foresee his recovery and the resurrection of the dying. And the mourner must see the unclouded joy, and the restless peace, and the sad comfort, and everyone the coming happy dance together.

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We can have many different futures. We are weaving the threads of this right now. And if we believe our unhappiness and disharmony to be real, if we believe our passion and fear to be real, then we weave it into the fabric of time.

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Unfortunately, banks do not accept God's money. But life does. It's called joy. And this only emerges when we get rid of the faulty program that keeps us running.

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A miracle is an external event, the reason of which we do not understand - because it happens inside. This is the secret of all healing, creative magic, creation. First inside - then outside.

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Serenity and joy are higher than suffering. Remember this! In suffering, man is a prisoner and bound. He is free and flying in the clear.

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Tragedy is when we are in the midst of suffering, when it all falls on us and we are under it. Comedy is when we transcend suffering and fly above it. Tragedy when we die. Comedy when we rise. Tragedy is falling into the abyss, agony and catharsis. Comedy is soaring high, victory over adversity. We cry in both of our states. In one, from pain. In the other, from laughing.

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Life: falling on your stomach...! And kicking ass...! Sure, kids...! We're all clowns...! Because first there is fear, pain, oh my God!... and then liberation, serenity, laughter.

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You should never listen to the first thought! Never. Because it is a reflex instilled in us by a sick society.

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A miracle is what is inside us and around us - but we don't notice it. While we live, we think it's natural... Only when it's over, we realize that we lived in a miracle. In retrospect. But then it's too late.

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When I should have just waited, believed, endured and worked, I felt that nothing was happening! I have to take my life into my hands!... I took my life out of God's hands, and in my hands it fell into the worst hands.

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The more one knows about oneself, the more one knows about life.

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Until you experience what the other person is like, you cannot love. As long as the pain you cause others does not hurt you, you cannot love. Karma is not a punishment, but a lesson: it teaches you what it's like to be the other; what does it feel like, where does it hurt? Until the wound you inflict on others hurts and you don't bleed from it, you don't know what "with" and "together" and "together" are. It is only possible to empathize with someone if my nerves also twitch from what I cause in them.

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If you are asked how you are, the most honest answer, even in the optimal case, is this: - Quite well. The ego is never really well. He always lacks something, and this lack drives him. He does not stop even when he is in great joy. There is no joy so great as to stop. Something is always poking at him, he always needs something, and a desire cannot be fulfilled without missing something else: usually the essence. If you get something, you feel it is not enough; if someone speaks to him, he looks over his shoulder to see if someone else is coming, and if someone else comes, it's not the "real" one either. Man is a prisoner of mortality. The ego is born for one life.

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When I forget about the harm and damage caused to me, like a ship forgets about the waves it leaves behind, or when our feet forget about the traces they leave in the dust... that is, we don't look for them, we let them go, we leave them behind, because we don't ours no longer: this is forgiveness. (...) Hatred, resentment, desire for revenge, anger are thrown away like an outgrown garment, and are no longer carried with them. Let it sink, disappear, sink into the darkness of eternal oblivion.

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Everyone is stupid, you have to love them with that.

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I've been a little girl, a lover, a wife, a mother, a lover, a divorced woman, an exile, a refugee hiding in basements, I've been a lady and a tannery worker - I've played many roles, but old age is the hardest. This is difficult to play not only because it is undignified, but also because one does not grow old inside. If I were old inside, it would be much easier. I wouldn't even notice that I've aged. But that's how I surprise myself. I look in the mirror and ask: who is this?

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It is very difficult to learn to give - if you learn at all. He wants to eat everything, he wants to get it, and this is the case not only with food, but also with other beings: from whomever he gets it, he forces him to serve. The most important part of this service is not physical, but spiritual service.

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Everyone can have a volatile moment in their life when the person becomes stronger than the businessman.

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Keeping a relationship together is quite an art.

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There is no relationship advice (...) that can make happy a woman who is not spiritually loved.

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Anyone you touch either pulls you down or lifts you up.

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A warrior does not love his opponent emotionally, but universally. He forms a unity with it. He draws her into his circle of power, and as if dancing with himself, they spin together. And not only would she be afraid of him, but on the contrary: she fears him. And he feels responsible for his fate. His goal is protection, but he knows full well that during the fight he is interfering with the laws of Fate. Whether he wins or loses, he takes the brunt of what he did. And if he did not act in the name of universal justice - that is, love - regardless of whether he dies or his opponent: the responsibility is his.

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Putting a fire on the ice field to keep us warm around it - that's all moms can do for us.

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Remember that love is a world wide web. It reaches everywhere, it is everywhere, it knows no time or distance. More sensitive than the network of nerve pathways in the body, the whole thing shrinks at a single touch.

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You can't live well without a guiding star, but you can't die either.

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When will the baby learn that his mother likes him when she smiles?

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If you soberly do not believe in any kind of god, there is still some kind of gratitude inside you - you have been given a gift and there is no one to thank.

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A new world is needed, where the ruling idea will not be interest, but love.

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We live on the border of two worlds. The old crunch. It's been thousands of years, but it's unsustainable today. Everyone knows. The other is about to be born. There is a usurpation of the throne, a rebellion that overturns the foundations of life, a desperate clinging to power, villainy, lies, haste and a mad rush on non-existent rails towards the abyss - and at the same time a struggle for freedom and a story of salvation. The "age of mothers" is emerging.

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First and foremost, however, we are all Humans. Only then can we be men and women.

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The misconception that God is a man means that the man has projected a giant image of himself into the sky.

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God hides both sexes in himself.

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Reach out to me with "good hands" and show me things that make my life easier: see me as better than I am. And I do the same in return.

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Yes, there is heavenly and earthly love. But heaven and earth love each other, remember that.

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Our life (...) is not about floating in carefree happiness, but about becoming spiritually fit to grind together.

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My burden is light and my yoke is sweet. (...) This is the basis of all love.

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The higher a person lives on a spiritual level, the more he serves the one below! As a mature mother serves her ignorant and immature child, as a master serves his students; he lives for them, sacrifices himself for them.

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People living in large families do not realize that sometimes they are completely alone in the constant pursuit of an heir. If there is no true love - which is based on the love of myself - every community is just a burden for us, a tiresome duty.

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Today, we no longer understand that the God-man relationship is not the relationship between a Father enthroned above the clouds and a creature living in the dust, but rather our relationship with our innermost Self.

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Shared hatred is the strongest unifying force.

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There are hardly any people who have not felt, when their child or loved one was in trouble, that something really pierced their heart. Maybe the red heart pierced with an arrow that we painted on the wall as children represented this experience. This "Ouch!", this stab behind our chest, indicates the secret connection of hearts. This is when we realize that our heart doesn't just beat for us.

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Every meeting is just an attempt at love.

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A fox saved her cubs from death by running out of her nest, across the open field, when the hunters approached, and while she attracted their attention and they shot her, her cubs ran away. This is how "animal love" works.

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The cross is your destiny (...). Others don't do it to you, you brought it on yourself. To be born, to live, to die is difficult. Being human is hard! And if you know this, and if you still find deep meaning and even beauty in this, you will be a happy person.

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The naked, beautiful instinct took the stage here, majestically, like a longing, young lion who does not know the lame conventions of civilization, the control of the crafty intellect, who can only desire and love, nothing else.

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I could not bear the company of a man like mine!

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The science, and the analyses, and the confessions... they're not worth a damn! Life is so miserably simple... so pathetically simple.

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Love is universal, here only soul stands before soul.

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They say: "idea"... and "luck"... Lie! Love... only love does everything in this confused life! (...) The rest was invented by man, but love... by God!

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A person does everything only for someone... plays for someone, strives for someone... for ourselves, it seems not worth it!... Theater!

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A man kills someone not only if he poisons or stabs him, but also if he cannot save him.

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For the woman has the danger - I experienced this as an imaginary woman - that she accepts the other person as he is.

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It is worth reading not to be "educated", but to be rich, to live many thousands of lives in one lifetime and experience what fall, power, loneliness, triumph, birth, death, homelessness and love are like. how many beliefs, obsessions, and fears can move a person to expose our lies, to discover the meaning of our lives, maybe even God.

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We break away from the wise unity. Sometimes we look at the sky, sometimes at the earth, and we are unable to experience that heaven and hell presuppose each other, and that our immortal soul lives in a rotting corpse.

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Good literature not only takes you to the sky, but also hits the ground.

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Our eyes not only see, but also create. It works like a projection machine: we project our desires, our sins, our obsessions, our repressed emotions, but also our love and ideals onto the outside world, and we believe that it is like that.

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Real power, says Nietzsche, is to will a will for a long time.

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A man's imagination scares him more than reality.

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The center of a person in love is not in himself, but always in the other: he depends on him, he makes sacrifices for him - he is happy and unhappy because of him. And if this other person does not fulfill his dreams, the attraction turns into hatred, and the lover can destroy not only himself, but also his lover.

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Love is much more complicated, a state woven of desire, delusion, posturing, escape, selfishness, sensual attraction and spiritual yearning, a pagan passion similar to idolatry, in which one expects salvation from the other, and if this is not fulfilled, it can lead to suicide.

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A person knows something for nothing if he is unable to change it.

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Even if we become aware of something in us: consciousness does not protect us against the much more deeply hidden powers of the soul.

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Just as the leaves of the trees, when the windstorm passes, "forget" their dangerous, howling howl, and rustle peacefully again in the sunny calm, so does the man, who has been swept by the destructive storm of the zeitgeist, forget his vile behavior.

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We want better, because where we are is not good for us. Something is always missing, even in the happiest of lives. And what is missing is - observe - always the most important thing.

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Your soul is infinite. Infinitely high and infinitely deep. There is an infinite past behind you and an unforeseeable future. But you can never live the Whole at once. That is impossible.

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There is another problem with emotional love. It can pass. In other words, it is weakened not only by spatial distance, but also by temporal distance. When I said that love is eternal, I didn't mean this love. It is perishable. He pulls someone close to him, then lets him go. In fact, it repels him. Over time, it can become indifference - the disillusionment of "I don't know what I liked about it...". Sometimes we leave a nice person behind as if we never had anything to do with each other. The ship of our life drifts forward, and they are lost in the receding waves that disappear on the stern. They fall behind. Their faces, like water-washed photographs, fade and disintegrate. They become strangers. The hot affection of love can be replaced by such cold indifference that even the death of the former lover does not hurt. Sometimes a person remembers one of these past emotional relationships as if it happened in a previous life. We have loves whose faces we have forgotten. "Who is this?!" However, the cooling of emotions is only one of the tragedies of this "love". The other, when it maintains its temperature, but turns into its opposite. It becomes hate. This stems from the polar nature of our emotions. There is no attraction without repulsion. And there is no repulsion without attraction. The two: one. The shadow of emotional love: hate. It's lurking behind it. And in hate you can always discover emotional love turned upside down.

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Let's love each other, I say. Let us love in this way, guessing, feeling, misunderstanding, "reimagining" and unknown. In this way, let's love each other even while groping blindly and forgive all our mistakes and mistakes.

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In the Land of Transience, "with you" is short and "without you" is long. Here, you see, everything takes a while. Friendship: a handshake. A familiar flash of eyes. And love: some hugs. Meeting - and already goodbye. "Together" here is a gliding flight over the abyss. (...) Everything is transient. All states of consciousness believed to be real are only dreams and disappear, except for one: this is love.

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There is no more false word than "acceptance"! I will not "accept" any garden if it is weedy or full of garbage. Not even a dog if it's honeysuckle, flea-ridden, and stinky. Anything and anyone, if I love it: I take care of it. Because I see "up"! And I want to raise it where I can see it. This does not mean eternal dissatisfaction and criticism, but the natural need of the eyes of the heart.

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Only those who have the tendency to deteriorate can deteriorate.

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Evil exists until man awakens to himself. After that it disappears - as darkness ceases in light.

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If you believed, you would know that the sun not only sets, but rises again the next day.

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The mystery of the kiss is that our mouths do not speak, but merge silently: the most "intellectual" organ of our body, the mouth and the tongue, reveals that its real function is not only the exchange of information, but also that of sensual love. Our tongue and our lips, which are laced with sensitive nerves, can convey more than words. And when two bodies come together, not only are they "physically touching", but also two souls vibrate into each other, and in the ecstasy of the meeting we ask each other: where have you been until now?

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Realization always entails a loss of value.

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Time that seems to flow: life itself. And the still image: death.

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The world of imagination is immortal - that of reality is mortal.

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Even the most beautiful woman, the queen of beauty, smells of sweat, bad breath and bad breath if she does not improve her smell with artificial means.

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You don't have to overcome the obstacle - you have to get over it. (...) The river does not stop to argue with the rock that stands in its way, but flows through it and rushes serenely towards the sea.

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He who does not rise falls.

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You can only get to the truth of a broken relationship if you recognize both bad "drists"! Yours too. Because we charm each other. You can get over a bad relationship if you expose both wizards. Ask yourself the question: "How much did I screw it up?"

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If someone "gives you a bad look", hates, despises, envies or hates you, it brings out the worst in you.

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They say I'm stupid until I begin to miss the lesson; they say I'm a coward until I'm really afraid; they say I'm guilty until I start to discover "guilty thoughts" in myself - sometimes I even commit to dirty little deeds. And it is very difficult to stop this distorting process, because if I decide that a malicious criticism will not affect me, mere self-defense also consumes a lot of energy, not to mention that someone who is too busy defending himself is not able to deal with true self-knowledge - he cannot be his own fair judge. If others hurt me, I have no strength left to fight my inner war. I stiffen into the role of the innocent victim, and of course I hate it back. In other words, I will become a hater myself.

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Anyone who lives for a long time in an atmosphere of hatred can sooner or later become worthy of hatred, perhaps barely perceptibly, but really.

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If I see you as hateful, let's say, because I project many of my "I don't like" qualities onto you, you don't experience it in such a way that my distorted image projected onto you will be visible on your forehead, like on a movie screen, but I also distort you. I'm dirtying you.

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We live in the awareness that no one belongs to anyone. You are there, I am here - we have nothing to do with each other. You are just a sight to me. I live in the delusion that when I look at you, I see you as you are, and when you look at me, you see me as I always am without your gaze. The reality is that when I look at you, I don't see who you really are, and not only what I project onto you of myself, but also who I transform myself into with this "projection".

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In the depths of our souls (...) this desire lives: we want to be happy and we want to live in prosperity, but above all without fear and without disease and without death. And that's impossible. The earth: the arena of struggle. It always has been and always will be.

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There is a wiser, more experienced person living inside us, compared to whom we are often wayward children.

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Expecting others to make us happy is as foolish as expecting others to grow up, learn, suffer, rejoice, and live instead of us.

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To commit a crime is to miss the mark.

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From the endless series of analogies, your problem always chooses the answer! The QUESTION in your heart attracts the answer. Wherever you feel a problem in your destiny, a problem to be solved, there arises a vortex of force that draws the answer to itself.

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If you live in your own light, you will quickly burn out and burn your relationships.

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Over time, the root system also splits the rock, drilling its soft threads into the hard stones, but if you rush this slow struggle, nothing will come of it.

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Love itself is nothing more than feeling someone deeply, seeing deeply behind his eyes, into his soul, and recognizing behind any appearance that "He is!". We feel your thoughts and think your feelings.

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If I don't love myself - I can never truly love anyone!

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All you have to do is not give in to your negative feelings. Only what is born inside comes from the outside.

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As long as you live on Earth, you will stay on it, you will live with it, because you can only exist in this world together with the whole.

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He who has found the center of his soul has found himself.

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Be able to enjoy small successes! Don't look at how far you are, but also at where you've already reached!

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From our souls can be read not only our own story, but also that of all those whose fates, even from the most distant, are connected with ours.

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Fate never weaves in a straight line, but in zigzags. It deviates, returns, stagnates, stops - it already looks like nothing will come of it all, when suddenly something comes true.

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True happiness is when we don't even notice; it's like health, clean water, a beautiful landscape, a laughing baby, a gentle, well-intentioned smile... Happiness: natural.

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We can only achieve a goal that everyone wants. (...) If you believe in one moment, you don't in the next: unbelief extinguishes the power of faith. If you believe in winning but fear failure, you will lose.

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A single good friend, an intimate word, a loving moment is worth more than any external success.

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Confusion can be inside us, outside of us, or both. Many voices, many wills, many desires, urges, feelings, thoughts - you need a conductor who organizes the disharmony with sufficient force.

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We can only fight if there is a reason. Because every struggle involves sacrifices, and we can only make sacrifices for a purpose whose meaning we foresee.

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You must not be separated from your spiritual homeland, because you walk like a river that is separated from its source: you dry up.

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Love the beast in you too! Feed it sometimes, because it belongs to you, to your being, to your ancient past, and it still lives inside you today. Many people make mistakes in their lives because they are not good with the raw instincts that live in their bodies and souls. Big mistake because the beast is stronger than them. But it can be tamed.

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Only those who love can be free. And love is devotion and acceptance at the same time.

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The Red Scarf is always in front of us. (...) Our child is born, we can't wait for him to get up, when he gets up, to run, when he runs, to talk; then we are proud that he can finally read; we are rooting for him to pass his exams, to be successful, to reach his goal, to become richer, more famous, more powerful, and to find his partner with great difficulty, who also has a Red Scarf hanging in front of him, which he has not yet been able to achieve either. And now they're moving on together. They don't enjoy themselves, each other, or their lives... Because where is the scarf?!

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Growing up means that you tear off who you were until now and grow into who you will become.

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The first step is the most important step. Not only because it indicates the direction of travel, but also because - like the seed of a plant - it contains everything.

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There is no more telling sign of a broken relationship than a lack of respect.

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Anyone who cannot experience the joy and pain of another person, who is unable to hide in another person's soul, who cannot experience that the other person is an independent world - that (...) cannot love yet.

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Impatience comes from a lack of true faith... If a religion is impatient, it has no God... And no man... Where are you in a hurry?

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You can only play the sheet music you brought with you. You can vary a lot. You can screw it up. You can play it wrong. You can play nicely. You can impromptu. You can change voices in it; you can also cut your violin so that it breaks into pieces, (...) - but you cannot deviate significantly from your Great Score. You can spoil your life, and you can also make it beautiful: whether you play it ugly, beautiful, or even wonderful: YOUR SONG IS SONG!

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You cannot give light - you can only light it if there is something to ignite. (...) The spark can be handed over - but you have to ignite it yourself. You have to create it yourself!

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We can create a storm within ourselves, and we can still our storm. (...) Our life is really sailing on the open sea, where you can't know what kind of storm the next hour will bring - but there is also a Helmsman on that ship!

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And real waiting is nothing but constant transformation. The person who starts waiting is not quite the same as the person who receives the expected result. In other words, it is not the object of expectation that changes over time, but we ourselves.

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Life itself is an unfathomable miracle - and whoever does not have wonder can never come close to the truth.

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Nobody is perfect. (...) That is still far away. We are still on the way. While we are on the road, we are afraid. And we suffer. And we love "imperfectly". No problem. This is our line of people. To love is imperfectly beautiful.

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No one is obliged to go crazy with madness.

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Sometimes I live in the power of my doomed ego, sometimes in the freedom of my boundless spirit.

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If you do not see the deeper, often unpleasant truth of your life in the eyes of your partner, that is, if he is not an honest mirror - then he is not your true partner.

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When I love someone, I recognize in them both someone with whom I am completely one and someone who is completely different from me.

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In the depths of our souls lies our greatest treasure, tears. We can bring it to the surface in two ways: with great pain or with great joy.

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Love is a flame, love is an ember. One burns brightly, the other heats for a long time.

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One should never give advice to others on a problem that one cannot solve on one's own.

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We may later become disillusioned and realize that he is not the one after all - but as long as we love him, for a few days or months, we are certain that "He is the one!" The experience of love releases this feeling from the depths of our souls: I am no longer torn in half! I found the other half of my soul!

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If I really love you, and you love me: neither of us will be who we were.

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There is no fulfillment without sacrifice. (...) Everything that is beautiful and great in our lives started out with unselfconscious joy, with a kind of spiritual experience that is comparable to the physical pleasure of a hug on a sensual level - but it can only be "born" with serious sacrifice and suffering. (...) People always make sacrifices for someone or something they are "in love" with!

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We have become more disillusioned, and even those who still promote it with treasury optimism do not really believe in the bright vision of the future.

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The success and recognition I craved only made me anxious. There is always a panting and uneasiness in triumph. This is also a kind of fulfillment, but not quite deep. Not real freedom.

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Maybe happiness should not be discovered and found, but simply remembered because we have forgotten it? If so, we've really forgotten.

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If you want and desire something, there are three stages to its creation: the first is the fertilizing thought, the second is the humility of acceptance, and the third is the long and struggling process of endurance necessary for its realization.

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I want you to close your eyes and look inward, or start with your eyes open in this maddened world that is teetering towards its doom, the clown will always be there in you!

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If you ask a happy person: Why are you happy? - he can't answer it. If he says something, he's not really happy! (...) A truly happy person, if he can answer the meaningless question at all, says: "Just!"

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I don't like to wait and I don't like to keep anyone waiting. (...) Albert Wass writes somewhere that anything you can steal can be returned, but if you steal someone's time, it cannot be repaid.

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The greatest things (...) happen to us in silence.

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Every day is lost that you haven't danced at least once. And every thought is false that you haven't laughed at least once.

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The devil is only the buyer - we are the sellers.

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"Last" is just a word... It warns you to enjoy the colorful bubbles - because they burst.

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- What does "last" mean? - "Last"? It just means never forget the moment. As long as you live your life indifferently, mechanically and out of habit, great things will pass you by. Events melt into nothingness. But when they say "last", the image stops, the moment suddenly grows enormous in your soul, and you will never forget it. If you live well, every moment will be your "last" moment. A big, red-letter experience! If you see something "for the last time", you look at it well. Your soul photographs it and makes it permanent.

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You have prepared a wonderful place for me in your heart!... But I don't want to live there! (...) Because it is a throne. He stands very tall. I want to live in you.

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You are afraid to love! You dare not love anyone! You fear that self-loss will come again... suffocation... (...) True devotion would be too painful for you. It's too dangerous. Dangerous. (...) You are full of wire obstacles! Protect yourself with barbed wire. (...) A fire frozen into ice burns inside you.

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The clown is the one who plays - not the one who is played.

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A person will never be sad because grief hits him from the outside - but because he does it from the inside. Our feelings never come from the outside, but from the inside. And inside we always feel what we allow ourselves to feel!

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Who among you has fallen in love and not heard a word of music? Who is caught up in the joy of unexpected good news and doesn't immediately hear music? Only fear has no music! Fear has no music, only noise. The hum of a cruel machine room. Hissing of transformer house.

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A person never hears what they say to him, but what he translates for himself with his heart.

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Have you ever looked into a child's eyes? In the eyes of a couple of years old. But not superficially, as we look at each other - but seriously. Curiously. Deep. (...) This is a view from the Garden of Eden. Untroubled peaceful. Clean. And happy? Yes, he's happy. But not in the way that it is joyful, but in the way that it lives in unity with itself: it looks from a world where there is no division, no drama - where the soul is not yet dirty.

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Our true knowledge lies like a sunken treasure in the depths of the sea of ​​our soul (...) primarily because the world of the law of the surface and the depth are different.

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The art of devotion is as difficult and wonderful as the art of non-devotion. The two are not separate: we learn them at the same time.

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If I only believe in myself, but not in the hands extended to me: I fall down. (...) Being alone is bad when you don't trust anyone. This barren, brittle bone loneliness. The bleak solitude.

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I and people are inseparably one. But I only experience this when I have a center: when I am Me. Only those who have a center can dance with others! He doesn't get dizzy in the rotation, and knows when to let the other go and when to embrace. When to bind and when to untie. When to open and when to close. When to say yes and when to say no.

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Every person brings immeasurable wealth. Every soul contains strength and willingness, ability and entanglement, possibility and impossibility.

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What we see as a special character, there lurk the teachable and unlearnable qualities, all the freedoms and insurmountable limits of a future life.

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You have to respect the problems, the pains, the areas of life where things don't go smoothly.

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Who are we to be loyal to? (...) In this rushing stream of life, into which we fell as babies, and as old men we will hit the shore somewhere, while our companions drifting beside us sooner or later fall behind, drown and swim away - in this ceaseless flood, where the old disappear and new characters are brought before us life is to get to know them, love them and forget them... so where is the loyalty?!

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The secret of every good human relationship is reciprocity and openness. In order for you to open up to me, I have to open up to myself. It's not like I'm in armor and you're naked.

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Those who live without wings in the stormy, foggy Time can do nothing but wait - wait for a better world and the shore. This is how we live. It's good for those who can wait - because many people don't wait at all.

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Everything that is realized, or as we say: "comes into being", carries the sour sweat smell of impermanence.

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True joy comes from within. If you are looking outside, it means that you cannot find yourself. (...) I want to feel good, and that's why I wander here and there, chatter, have fun, to get rid of my inner restlessness.

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The unit can be broken - but it restores itself according to law. A good example of this is today's ecological situation - you can rob Nature for greedy, selfish, unloving purposes - but the consequence of this is that Nature pulls back the rebellious man. Water absorbs it, fire burns it, does not quench its thirst, and makes it sick with its poisoned air. Every selfish act we have done, by which we have violated the unity of love, creates a reaction. This is karma. Learning that causing pain hurts. And plundering the world: misery. And being bad is bad. And to be cold is to freeze. And being selfish is abandonment. And not to love: fear and death.

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Contrary to popular belief, love is not something we helplessly "fall into". It's not "falling on us". (...) There is always a neutral point where one gives oneself permission to love or not to love. (...) This is the moment when we can still decide.

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His gaze was strange. Sad and empty. This is how men look when they meet their old love.

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No one can tell me who to love. Even I cannot refuse myself, because this is decided at a much higher level than my will reaches - it is decided in such a place of my soul, in such a high sphere, beyond the atmosphere of earthly life, where neither society, nor customs, expectations, interests, or even conscience, cannot interfere in anything. Here, the soul soars freely, with whomever and wherever it wants.

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How long can you believe? (...) How many failures does it take for someone to give up their faith? And finally, the most important thing: When does it become clear that faith is blind faith? When will it be revealed that I have deceived myself? And what I expected and hoped for will never come true! When will it become clear that your desire - no matter how much you believe, want, hope and make any sacrifices for it - will not be fulfilled? When does faith in an idea, a religion, or even my own future become obsolete? When the moment comes when you get up from the floor in vain - you have lost.

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Pearl fishermen who dive into the deep not only for the pearl itself, but also to show it to others: look what a beautiful truth we have found! But would the pearl be valuable if it remained in someone's hands?

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How well do we know our future? And above all, how much we ourselves shape, and how much external circumstances shape the events of our lives. What is it that we brought with us, and what is it that we ourselves evoke with our magic power? How long is our destiny planned? And how much can we mess up our lives?

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In a corrupt world, one cannot follow anyone but one's own heart! Not his father, not his mother, not power, not social laws, not his upbringing, not his schools, not even his confessor, no ideology, expectations, politics, morals - only his own conscience! All good advice, principles and commands outside of our own hearts are to be examined! Otherwise, we too will become owls and hoot!

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When a person imagines and plans, dreams and hopes - this is a good part of waiting. What will it be like? (...) How will it be? Sometimes we dream! (...) That is why it is difficult to decipher the message of dreams, because it is not only our past and present, but often our future as well. Sometimes we look into the next scene of our life's film, which has not yet been experienced... It's good to wait for a while. But when we wait, we wait, and in vain - it is no longer. For example, if I wrote the above sentence like this: "We wait, we wait, we wait, we wait, we wait... we wait and we wait and we wait and we wait..." you would be bored. Your eyes impatiently skip the third "our castle"; as if a faulty record was playing, you would hear the same repetitive sound, and if something doesn't happen, that is, if your life stops and your future doesn't unfold in front of you... it's disturbing, even downright unpleasant. When time dies, faith and hope also die, and the dark and death-smelling primal experience appears that what you are waiting for will never come! Never. The promise is not fulfilled.

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The Cancer man lives in the music of the gentle rocking of freshwater lakes and the flow of the river, - he loves his child like a mother, whose emotions stop at the borders of the family. He only loves "his".

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Free relationships last. Like migratory birds that have traveled the world, they come together again after a long time and tell each other what they saw.

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Self-sacrifice, tireless sacrifice: the measure of love.

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I always come out of my rut when my wife tells the truth. In such cases, I run away, slam the door on him - and apologize to him later. The temperature of my temper indicates how right he is: if I cut the door in such a way that the plaster comes off - then he is one hundred percent right.

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You look in the mirror in the morning, your hair is messy, your eyes are slightly swollen; you put toothpaste on the brush and brush your teeth. Have you ever looked at your face? Have you looked at your eyes? Did you see who's looking back at you? You cannot live with a heart "dressed in ornaments".

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A dream is always more beautiful than reality. And the imagined happiness is always more complete than the "reality" created by bitter squealing, because something disturbing always comes into it.

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Just give birth. Give birth to yourself. Ignite your heart and let this spark dispel the darkness of your entire past year! And if this little flame of a child grows stronger in you, go to your relatives. Bring them your peace, your new face, and your conviction that the setting of our life is not a room, but the entire universe.

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Free to love... well then let's try again. With each run, we might get closer. The road always opens up before us, and we just get to love.

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Unbreakable love is what was born up there. He tied it up there with the permission of the heavens. Most people have the ability to truly love, yet few "practice" it well. I don't belong to that small group of people who love from the bottom of their hearts. What is freedom? - I do not know. Where can I practice and develop this skill? I should primarily experience the feeling of freedom so that I don't have any fears or inhibitions about myself. Until that happens, just love me.

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The freedom of love can only be the freedom that does not cause bad feelings, contempt, humiliation, or feelings of inferiority or inferiority to the partner. The freedom of true love can exist together with mutual attention, mutual respect, understanding, and mutual appreciation. If this is not the case, then freedom becomes self-righteousness, selfishness, and self-serving.

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The most beautiful gift: a smile. A hug. Or not even that - just a thought: "I love you".

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In spiritual love, the rock-hard walls of our self crack, and like a flood, we step out of ourselves and flood the other's world as well. Even if this world is full of dams, obstacles, barbed wire. And all these hurt, offend, scratch or injure in vain. Anyone who enters our country finds himself in a country full of thorns, traps and obstacles. That's how you know someone loves you, that they overcome these hurtful obstacles, forgive your hurts, tolerate your mistakes, and cover them up.

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Don't forget: they are waiting. They are always waiting! Even if you are alone, if you have no one, if your room and bed are empty, if you live in a frozen world and the horizon is dark. Even if they left you, if they hate you, if you haven't found a partner, if everyone around you is a complete stranger - they are waiting! And those who wait miss you a lot! Just like him to you. If you're young and you don't have a partner yet, and you won't find anyone later, or even if you're old and alone - don't forget: they're waiting! "Coming!" - think in your solitude. He thinks so too. And go. And he comes. This certainty once gave birth to faith in God.

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A family is drawn together by unknown forces of fate. But friends are only attracted and freedom of choice.

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Every place where you were happy is sanctified.

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If I don't see you with my heart, there is no hope for us to understand each other. If I'm not in you and you in me, we don't understand each other no matter how much we talk.

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Those who long for love look for acquaintances. But who it is is a mystery. It cannot be expressed. When I'm with him, I don't feel alone.

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We are afraid to love. And not without reason. It is dangerous to take off the armor of selfishness and remain naked among others, among indifferent and merciless self-crazies.

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True love is woven from freedom. This is what we don't understand because we can't really love yet.

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A child's life is extremely rich, the whole world lies within it, but none of this is visible to the outside world.

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During our life we ​​play roles, we change so many masks. But it would be a big deal if we only knew each other through our masks in heaven.

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He knew exactly how a man went mad; not in the way that he throws his arms and legs and starts shouting and rushing and babbling impossible, confused things, but on the contrary: he watches himself with such force that it is no longer normal.

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A lie is a hopeless attempt to kill the truth.

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A good relationship is just as much a work of art as a poem, a dance duet or a violin-piano sonata. It is operated by a peculiar internal order and some intelligent spiritual culture.

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You must have experienced it many times: a good conversation, an intimate time together, a loving hug seems to have music! You can almost hear it. He doesn't listen. With soul. Where there is no harmony, there is chatter. Rumli is there, confusion. As a mobile phone forgotten in our pocket sometimes records; listen to the noise we live in if there is no love among us. Like in a monkey house: everyone blows, screams and grinds their own.

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But if a friendly conversation! Listen back! The silence of people listening to each other, the words spoken at the right time. The laughs. The power of sound. When there is something to talk about - the air is filled with soul.

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It's not about emotion, it's about much more. Listen to your heart, because here lies the mysterious core in which everything is contained: feeling, understanding, together.

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The dead don't die. If you've ever loved me with mature love, you know this too.

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All human coexistence: mutual magic, each other's creation.

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A person who loves well does not "sober" over time, but gets more and more drunk. If you've ever seen old people holding each other's hands convulsively after a murder, you know what I'm talking about. It's rare, but it still exists.

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Just as a musical scale is only complete when the earthly basses and heavenly "high" notes sound together in it, and the colors also only when the tawny gray-brown of the material, the passionate red of the energies and the crimson of the spirit glow together: love is also complete only then , if it contains the body, soul and spirit of Man.

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Depression is nothing but the blindness of the "eyes of the heart" - that is, the absence of love.

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If a woman wants to be born again, she has to fight a two-front battle. One with yourself, the other with the whole world!

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The strong is not afraid. Only the weak side. And fear itself is nothing more than experiencing the awareness that I am weak. Defenseless. It can be killed, destroyed, looted.

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Mistakes are also important. Disappointment is also important. Disillusionment too. Meeting is important, but so is parting. Happiness and unhappiness are important. Both indifference and passion are important. Both betrayal and repentance. The agony of being alone and the unbearableness of relationships are important. Leaving and returning. Loyalty is important and, unfortunately, unfaithfulness is also important. We have to experience everything, bad and good. We have to live through everything. We can only truly belong to each other if we have already shed all disguises, inhibitions, selfishness, fear, disappointment, passion, and lies.

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We are exhausted today not only because we do a lot of robotics, but because we do things we don't like and live in an atmosphere where there is no love. If we do something with love, we don't even notice what kind of performance we are capable of. Love gives an immeasurable amount of energy. It makes a person tireless, fills him with strength.

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It is a matter of inseparable unity with the other. That I love and want to be with him, I want to suffer with him and I want to die with him - because for me it is a greater torment if my love, a being that belongs to my soul and body, is torn away from me than to accept any kind of hell and suffering with him.

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In ancient and mature cultures, the elderly were respected not because they "earned it with their hard life", not because of the sober foresight that "one day I will be old too, and how good it will be if they don't throw me away!", but because the soul was even more sensitive, the spirit more open, and the old man, with his enormous life experience, displayed values ​​that were attractive and desirable to the younger people! (...) The old man was not a burden at that time, but an inestimable asset: they did not look at how ephemeral his body was, but who lived in it!

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The Ji-king says that every relationship is a spiritual relationship! Today's automatic mode person is in the biggest mistake when he thinks that his "spiritual connection" is only with his lover, not with the store employee sitting behind the cash register. Of course, a relationship can have different depths, but anyone who sees even just one person as an object and a tool will sooner or later see the person dear to them as a tool.

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He who lives wisely works on his destiny like a painter on his picture: sometimes he steps back, looks at the whole - sometimes he leans close and works out the details with the memory of the horizon. If you don't, you'll get lost in your image.

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Man cannot pass judgment on himself or others. Because he is not in a position to review the truth. Truth must be entrusted to God. Who knows what the truth is, and who doesn't want to punish, but heal.

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In truth, we are not separate in the way that we experience it with our ordinary, common sense. We are connected by hundreds of thousands of invisible nerve fibers, intermingling energy, feelings, and thoughts, and what we have caused in others never really leaves us. It remains inside us and aches deep down, as if it were a wound of our body, our soul.

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When the one you love is near you, it's like the air is warmer. The objects start to smile, the room becomes more familiar, as if the scent around you changes, if someone who is nice to you is near you. This unmistakable feeling of presence, when the strange suddenly becomes familiar, when your surroundings become intimate - a sure sign of love.

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The truth is dangerous - because we live in a paper world of appearances, and when the truth is revealed, it burns.

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An old Buddhist monk I met in India told me that Europeans themselves are the most undisciplined people I have ever met because they are constantly wandering in unreality. Either they dwell on their past, which is unreality, because it no longer exists, or they reflect on their future, which is the other unreality, because it does not exist yet. Instead of living the present with full intensity, it somehow passes, runs away.

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The fact that the world is still standing is thanks to women.

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In the Ten Commandments, God gave instructions for use for individuals. If you want to be good to me, don't do this, do that. But it is not about morality, but about the conditions of a good relationship with God. He simply says, I am the Lord, these are the conditions for you to be good with me, if you want to be good. If you don't follow these, you won't be good with me. That doesn't make you a villain, you just have nothing to do with me.

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Dictatorship has one advantage. That it disciplines a person. Outwardly, but he disciplines. Because he is afraid of listening devices and informers and learns the discipline of language and speech. There is poverty and misery, and thus he is forced to discipline his possessive instincts.

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Life requires many things: food, housing, heating, lighting, a car, but then you need an even better car, an even bigger apartment, an even nicer villa, even more expensive and brand-name clothes, and slowly you see that (... ), that the energies of life are tied up by the energies focused on acquiring the requisites of life.

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The Zen master who was asked by his students: "Master, how can I know if I still have work to do in the world?" is right. And the master answered: "Because you live."

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Out of absolute love, you can give a child a slap so big that the wall gives the other. And it is not out of love that you can ignore the fact that a child grows up without strength and becomes a troubled person. The point is not whether I treat a child forcefully or weakly, but whether I treat a child with love or not.

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Apocalypse is as much a part of Buddhism as it is of Taoist philosophy or Christianity and Judaism. They have always known that humanity is not progressing, but moving towards a crisis.

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Today's relationships are empty because the angel is not there. Or, since they are empty, the angel does not come. Not true friendship, not true love, even though it could become one in an instant.

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It's not a question of who he is, but what he does. When characterizing a person, the verb approach is good, not adjectives. A person cannot be qualified.

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We can cry for many reasons. We melt from mental pain, sudden joy, lust, but sometimes even from intense love. We're starting to trickle. What is most sea-like in us flows from us, our salty tears - we drown ourselves. When I bathe in the sea, I remember that I am now swimming in God's "tears of joy"; he cried out this salty-bitter ocean when he realized how beautiful his creation was.

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Only a crippled creature who humbly serves her husband is called feminine. Those who have no other purpose in life than motherhood - when their child grows up, they may even die, because there is no reason to live anymore. If one's true nature is suppressed - a cripple. He is not a healthy person.

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The neurosis. The hysteria. The depression. The Real Man does not know these things. It can be sad, never depressed. Because that is already a sign of self-loss. Depression is nothing more than the consequence of the betrayal of the spirit.

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The problem is not that there is male dominance. That could even be good. The problem is that the man in power has no idea what a real man should be like. In other words, he cannot play his role well - he cannot love well.

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Spiritual love is nothing but a higher-quality, more refined state of sensual love.

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Sensual love no longer works in the long term, because it is the most transient form of love. It has the same problem as everything physical: it is bound to time.

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Lust is the happiness of creation.

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Life is like a never-ending costume party: we are forever changing clothes, faces, masks.

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The child in us has died. We have forgotten our ghost house, we don't hear its messages, or only rarely and falsely. We are getting old and not well. We became sleepless. They're rogue magicians instead of mages. Our stunts are sometimes spectacular, but they don't stand the test of time. However, we originally created works, wrote, played music and painted pictures, taught and prophesied to transform the world. Failed.

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Spin, confusion, rush, selfishness, chaos, even where we are attracted to each other with an emotionally painful force.

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There are events in our lives that - while they are still in full swing - we know we will never forget them. Such is a good conversation, a hug, sometimes a nice piece of music; as long as you live, a Voice says inside you: "absorb this experience deeply, because you have to feed on it for the rest of your life!" Don't forget!... You have to find your way back here, always!

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First you have to believe in faith, and only then does true faith come.

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In the absence of love, the soul begins to feel cold, the cold shakes it, and if it cannot bear it, it also perishes.

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I say love is the only thing that doesn't need to be shown. It has an unmistakable sign, which can be noticed immediately with closed eyes, without words or flowers. Warmth flows from love. Not cold, not scorching hot, but warm. Body heat. I enter an apartment and feel that they love each other here.

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I couldn't snap out of my daze. I stumbled into my well-accustomed and unique reality, unable to acknowledge that it was no longer mine. I stuck to my life like flypaper. I enchanted myself into the dream of my life to such an extent, I thought it was so real, that I could not wake up from it. I was afraid that everything would be lost. Not only my world, but myself.

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No matter how much our private hearts beat separately, we are still "together". In other words, this is where true love resides. Although our hearts beat separately, our lives are shared. Your heart and mine may beat at different rates, but we share the same Creator. We have the same "drummer".

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He couldn't love himself or others. He experienced his heart as a prison... he wanted to break out of it... he wanted to love... he wanted to be loved... and that's why he blew up the walls of his heart... he didn't know, of course, that he could die in it... the last he realized at the moment when it was too late.

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Only heroes could die for something, especially love.

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Mothers fear their children's fears, take over their painful illnesses - sometimes they even die because of them.

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Happiness passes us by, usually when we least expect it, and the light of understanding also flashes in us when we stop the violent, violent pursuit of the truth.

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A fiery bitch and a male mouse are not enough for love!... For that you need a King and a Queen!... Two free people!... Two "masters of myself" people!... Not longing, attraction!.. .. It also has that, but that is not the point!... The point is that you are not lost, but fulfilled in it!... And you are not the servants of the feeling, but the masters!

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- Now that the farewell, the separation, the fear of loneliness, the hopeless future are approaching, and the terrified thought comes: "Let's stick together in this doomed, terrifying, hopeless world, because it's not good to be alone"... all this he cried out to you: "Stay with me!"... This is not love. - But what? - Escape.

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If you think you are sick, you will be! If you believe in your healing - but really believe - you will be healed. If you believe in yourself and your future, your faith turns the invisible into material, and you can write a livable future for yourself. But if others hypnotize you, they can even destroy you! They chase you into delusions that you fall into. You can harm yourself and others can harm you. With the power of your imagination, you can conjure up a crappy life that you don't want to live.

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We need to create hours when we look not at our feet, but at the stars, to glimpse the true direction and perspective. In a dense forest, a person may only see the next tree, but if he does not cast his eyes on the pole star, not only will he not be able to guess from the forest, but he will not even be able to take his next step in the right direction.

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Only the person who is important to him can really get a person out of his rut. The one he loves.

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Life transforms the costumes and masks of all of us beyond recognition. But when you love someone, they hardly change in your eyes: sixty or seventy years pass and you feel the same around them. The same radiation, the same indescribable feeling of "I know!".

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He saw into Bliss, and Bliss saw him.

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An interesting thing about mental wounds is that they heal much more slowly than physical ones. (...) Sometimes it seems that our pain (or our fear) is timeless. The memory of the soul is deeper and more real than that of the body.

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If we reveal what makes us happy, we give away our deepest secret... I know.

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It is in the wise books to love, believe, rejoice, be happy - but there is no "how"! "Love your enemy!" I see. But how, once I hate and hate? "Be happy!" Of course. But what if I'm unhappy and desperate? "Do not be afraid!" But what if I'm constantly anxious and overwhelmed?

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There can be many kinds of tension between men and women, which can be resolved according to the truth of the man, but also of the woman. The two "truths" are not the same, because they look at the world with different eyes, and both can be "right" in their own way.

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Being "not there", being "lost", being "abandoned", being "gone" hurts. Really hurts. And yet: this pain can also be beautiful.

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No one has become fat from the first cream, and no one has become a smoker from ten or twenty cigarettes. The process of getting used to it is crucial. And just like the bad, you have to get used to the good. Only what we repeat many times will become blood, reflexes, instincts, character, and ultimately destiny. If there is no long-term work in something, it will never be ours.

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What to do if they don't like you? (...) I, I say, will run away. I'm not there anyway, because they don't see me, they don't know me. Where a person is not loved or hated, he is not really known there - he is a stranger.

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Today, in the advanced stage of the world crisis, we no longer have any ideals. Courage, courage, loyalty, sincerity, honesty, unconditional adherence to the truth, self-sacrifice - and at the same time infinite respect for women, the deep love that speaks not only to the desirable bottom, but also to the being, are now extinct concepts. . We can only lie about all this. Not only for others, but also for ourselves. They have become obsolete words. We went down to the frog.

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We don't know who painted the bison on the walls of the caves, but I suspect it was a man. The man - as long as he was really a man - represented Heaven in all cultures. The Woman is the Earth. In Chinese philosophy, man is the Creator, woman is the Receiver. The dignity of the two of them becomes complete in the embrace, because only the two of them together form a complete whole. They don't make any sense. In the hug, the man is the giver, the dominant, the decider, and the Woman is the implementer, the creator, the caretaker, the maintainer.

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If you're not by my side, if I can't have you and feel you near me - I feel like I've lost you. And yet, you see, what happened to me, a long time ago, was that the greatest love of my life left me. It hurt terribly. I almost died after that. It hurt to miss him, it hurt constantly, like an unhealed wound, but I told myself: If HE IS, he will come back. If not, then forget it, it's not too bad!

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You can feel from a touch whether it is the touch of a strong person or just a weak person. It is very difficult to live with a person who lacks tenderness. Be strong. Not to win, but to caress!

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You can accurately measure how much someone loves you by how well they can forgive your mistakes.

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Loyalty is the most beautiful human quality and sometimes the most painful. Because in order to be loyal to someone, you have to be unfaithful to the other. Someone has to be betrayed.

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When you look back, you see that you prepared all your success and glory when you were still humble. An athlete becomes a world champion in the gym smelling of sweat.

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There is no goodness and love, no human or divine power that can intervene in our destiny from the outside and fight our most decisive battle for us.

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It is your destiny to live, to be, to be what you are; such is your body, your soul, your personality, such is your talent, your desire, your passion - that is, your role... That you are surrounded by those people with whom you have to play out the drama of your life, good or bad: your father, your mother, your siblings, your children ... All your fellow players!... But even your neighbors, strangers, even your mortal enemies!... The circle is very wide, because the space is big: remember that this is a world theater!

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Our destiny is a long-term cosmic life plan that spans many lifetimes, makes sense individually, yet is connected. It guides you from one life cycle to the solution of the primordial drama of creation. He wants your Light to triumph over Darkness.

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We have to fight for our own more beautiful and real face. Self-discovery involves the greatest struggle and demands the greatest sacrifice. And our real partner is the one who helps us in this.

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The Taoist sages say: the secret of Being is not at the top of the wheel, but in the still center. The Mover lives there. In other words, in the center of our being, in the heart of our spiritual being, there is eternal peace. Peace of mind. Even now. In you too, (...) in me too. We just don't live through it.

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When I counted "never", then some light began to dawn on the horizon... When for the first time in my life I accepted the magical key phrase of destiny formation, "Not my will be done, but Yours..." at that moment the until then, my desire buds were tightly closed: everything around me started to bloom at the same time.

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What I knew, it turned out later that I didn't know well, I had to think about it, but what I believed was always true and is still true now. And it will be.

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In addition to the bitter drunkenness, the loss of hope also has the mental self-deception that here the failure is not the consequence of my state of mind (my weakness, sin, stupidity, mistake, incompetence), in short, not my deserved fate, but some kind of external, objective situation, against which I'm helpless.

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It's good to complain! It's good to feel sorry for ourselves! It's good to blame the world and other people for their losses. If someone starts to love himself badly, it works like this: he turns his pain into lust and his weakness into "sanity".

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Each of our years: a circle of life. A ring on the trunk of the tree of life. And at the end of each life cycle, we die a little - at the same time, at the beginning of each new cycle, we resurrect a little.

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The most important thing you lived for is not in others, but in you! It's called dignity.

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Not to be - even Prince Hamlet longed for that. But he realized he couldn't. Man was born to fight. In fact, I am convinced that it is for victory. Even if you lose many battles and wars.

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Looking in the mirror is always risky. A person keeps a different image of himself in his soul than what is seen from the outside: our face is like the image that is conjured up: everything is on it. Also what we have denied in ourselves. Also what life has written on him. A man's life's work is written on his face.

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A person does the most for his future when he doesn't even think about it - if he lives the present moment as if it were the Whole! Your future will be made up of these present moments resolved with complete dedication - almost by itself. If you look ahead, you steal your attention and strength from the present: you sow carelessly, and therefore your harvest will be pitiful.

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The greatest things are born below, in the silence, in the depths, in wordless, humble devotion. Modesty is the mother of the greatest achievements.

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The basis of politeness: self-knowledge. First of all, a person values ​​himself: my behavior does not depend on what others deserve, but on what my standard is.

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The truth is not what we think - that we smart people are inhabitants of an irrational Universe, but quite the opposite: we, irrational, self-confident and stupid people, are not "inhabitants" of an absolutely intelligent world, but inseparable parts, in which everything is connected with everything.

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The "Heart" symbol is misunderstood by everyone. We believe that pure emotions reside here, just as we believe that love is some kind of warm, benevolent, sentimental feeling. It is not true. He who "sees with his heart" sees clearly! He sees the Whole together, without any emotional bias. He sees what is really there because he is not involved in the drama.

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The truth was once sought to make life better, more meaningful, more humane. Today, in the age of frantic rush and mental overwhelm, the knowledge of the truth has become the passion of the few; truth, ideas, morality have nothing to do with life anymore. The bulk of humanity would be interested in a single working "truth"; how to get more money as soon as possible.

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In a seed, not only the past, but also the future is potentially "inside": everything and everyone is "written" not only in what once was, but also in what should be - or should be! - to be. Your destiny is written not only in your body, but in your entire being - whether you realize it or not is up to you.

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There are two permanent, unshakable things in the world: one is divine Truth - the other is human stupidity.

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Until you tell someone that HE IS! - until then you don't really love him. And if you have the suspicion: "Maybe he's not THE ONE after all?" - it means you don't love him anymore.

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Love is the main word of our life - and therefore it is in every human being. Those who are not in love are also in love, they just don't know it.

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Education does not only depend on principles and smart tactics, because we educate primarily with our being. Education: secret metacommunication. What is good and pure in you, and what is bad and dirty, you pass on. The child shakes your fears, worries your concerns - but also lives your calmness and serenity - if it's real.

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Anyone who wants a family - and this is a heroic undertaking these days - must live against the world. He must draw an umbrella around his family, like a masked protective cloak during a cholera epidemic. You have to filter even the air.

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Our mother's affectionate, caring love, without which we could not live, turns into a dangerous seaweed in our adulthood.

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If we get stuck in it, we will not succeed in becoming adults and making our destiny freely.

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It hurts the caterpillar to be a butterfly. It hurts the seed to rot and become wheat. It hurts a person to turn from an embryo to a newborn. It hurts the child to become an adolescent. It hurts the adolescent to lose his rebellious, free self and to become a troubled, captive adult. It hurts to grow old. And it hurts the old man to die. Even if you know: this is the key to rebirth.

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The purpose of our injuries is not to "heal" us, but to make us stronger and wiser from them. Know this while you suffer.

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Respecting someone - in the true sense of the word - can only be done by someone who also respects himself.

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Friendship is the purest connection between souls. There is no selfishness, compulsion, sensuality, or interest in it. We choose.

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Most love poems are written because they couldn't settle the essentials with a single kiss.

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Sometimes we tend to despair when the person we care about leaves us... but the truth is, it's not our loss, it's his, because he's losing the person who never gave up on him.

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Harmony can only be created around a soul that has already created it within itself.

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The two lovers stare into each other's eyes, looking at no one else, with a seeing, blind gaze. Both look only at Him, at the other - and meanwhile they don't notice that the world is on fire around them, which they set ablaze.

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Life is theater, chicks! The selves we played hang like faded costumes in the wardrobe of our memory. We can take it over, we can play it again.

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Who do we really love? In whom our dream and reality coincide.

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No matter how much you hug someone with both hands, crumpling them, biting them, kissing them, strangling them (...) - they're still not yours. But if you really love him, on the farthest star, he will stay with you for a hundred million years - because the experience of unity is indelible.

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Anyone who wants to embrace the other person wholeheartedly, enthusiastically, must face the fact that the instinct of freedom works even in a pathetic civilian, and that sooner or later he will embrace Nothingness.

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This guitar is like our soul. (...) He doesn't sound depressed. It rattles painfully. In order for the song to start playing on it, I have to tune it up! That's the secret! With a depressed soul, we do not hear, we do not see, our music does not play. (...) Without tuning, there is no beauty, no music. No joy!

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Life is a miracle! A fantastic, unrecognizable miracle! The only problem is that not all miracles make you happy.

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To love truly, deeply and very much is a risky thing. We have to jump through a ring of fire to the other, and we might get burned in the process.

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Everyone can only read themselves from the book. Your own love, your own memory and your own experience. (...) Because even if you read something, you have to create it even in your own imagination. In your reality, which is different from mine or anyone else's. All reading: re-creation.

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The miracle only belongs to those who believe in it.

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You can love even if you don't see the one you love. If we find the diamond axis of our soul, the other can come and go, because we have become free... and we still love (...) if we really love someone.

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Love knows no past tense.

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Falling out of heaven and not getting back there: the greatest loneliness.

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Never let them grind you into any kind of false association. Learn well that Unity and Uniformity are different.

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Experience my thoughts and feelings - and recreate them in yourself. Everything is born in you.

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What is the difference between love and love? You can't be so close to me that you don't miss me constantly. It's only in love.

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You can't judge someone from a snapshot. But not even from a whole life. Because you don't know where he came from and where he's going - what he brought with him and what he's taking away. If you don't know where a soul is going, only what it is like right now, you know nothing about it. If you don't see the future person in a seed, and what kind of seeds are ripening in the person - what do you know about it? If you don't know who you will be, what do you know about yourself? Very little.

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I tell you this with a hint of the final secret: not only the last leaf, but the whole branch and every torn leaf is equally important.

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Writing is a solitary activity. The beauty of being able to finally speak.

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People don't know how important it is to be with yourself once in a while. It is absolutely not that such quiet hours should be respected in others.

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What is loyalty? It's easy to answer. What doesn't change. "Put me like a seal on your heart!" says the Song of Songs. Loyalty: a seal on the heart.

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If there is something immortal in man, it is laughter. It comes from within us where there is no death.

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True Love is not "letting go" - because it is like ripping the string of a balloon and releasing it into the boundless nothingness. No. True Love has no strings attached. Invisible and indestructible. It always remains. True Love is not in space and time. That's why it's free.

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The art of life consists in the fact that a person does not lose his "better self" in any situation (...), he always solves the time and feels good in the time he is in.

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Remember: the web of fate is woven by living souls, and not by the mandatory deadlines of some kind of office.

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Not only the two hugging bodies attract each other, but also the soul, the soul of the future child.

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Who are you in love with? In whom your dream and reality coincide for some mysterious reason. And it lasts as long as it is.

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With my thoughts, I can make you want me passionately physically and be mine.

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There's another conversation when I'm looking for a partner. I need to listen to you. Let me listen to you. And give myself to you. And I'll take you in. And you me too.

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True community is only created where people love each other in a mysterious way. I mean, they're friends. Beyond all interests, religion, politics, social situation and world view.

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The one you love, you ennoble, beautify, help him become worthy of himself. You are like this with your child, but it should be like this with your partner. If you love him, you are the only person who can tell him that "you have abandoned yourself, let him live on!" If you love her, you know that she is only weak on the outside, yet strong on the inside, and only a coward on the outside - brave on the inside. You are the only one who can tell him if he is living unworthy of himself, because love is a license to be honest. If you love - listen well! - he listens. He might get angry, of course, lose his temper and scream, but sooner or later he will listen. If he doesn't listen to you, he doesn't really love you, and then everything is for nothing. Only love can and knows how to educate.

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We dream about our future role in life. And the story too. We ourselves present the events, limitations, reactions, and problems necessary for the experience. Because a person only learns that causing pain: it hurts, if he is also in pain.

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Our life has become such that you can no longer laugh at it. You can't laugh at a crazy person - no matter what he does. Crazy is not funny.

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My mother, who liked simple expressions, still shaped the idea a little. He said: - All people are stupid in a special way.

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The world is your mirror. It shows you. I know you don't like to look into it, and neither do I, but it's necessary for our self-knowledge.

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Obviously, if you think about the society in which you live, you also think that you are involved in unworthy circumstances. However, this is only half the truth. The other is that you shape the world and the community you were born into just as much as it shapes you. In a thousand ways, you are not only a victim, but also a perpetrator of the world.

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No matter how messed up someone's life is, if they live their destiny, they will eventually straighten it out. Even at the cost of great suffering.

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But what will our future be made of if not our past? Just as my body matures hereditary cells in me, from which my child's life will unfold, so these indecent memories ripening in the darkness of our unconscious will become a whole future life!

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I can cry whenever I want. Feelings and thoughts not only "attack me", but sometimes I am also the master of my mental states. Not by suppressing them, but by being able to evoke them myself. With this, more or less everyone is like this, without realizing it. We believe that our moods depend on the influences of the outside world. This is partially true. But also from us!

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If a girl left me, I was not only sad, but a voice told me: "Now observe carefully what it's like without her... What it's like when you love me and they don't love me... Notice what it's like when you're in shit!"

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Everyone has a song in their soul that is only theirs. No one else's. This is his happy voice. Do you know yours?

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You can only love someone if you sometimes hear their voice of happiness. It's different than yours, but if you like it, it's familiar. You can tune into it. And you can sing to him, sometimes. These are rare and wonderful moments in life.

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Other people don't make me happy. Not him, you and them, and not money, luck and prosperity. You can only be happy when your song plays. Maybe nothing is happening right now. There is no one there, you are alone and yet you feel it. You experience that: "Now it's good!"

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It is better to walk alone in anxiety and sorrow than with others on a path unworthy of us.

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If you cheat on a woman and pierce her "woman's heart", the Human living inside does not die. He's in pain, but he can heal. He can forgive. If she is a wise woman, she can rise above her female grievances.

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If you are a good mother, you know that your child is not only "your child", but a Human being entrusted to you. Yours - and not yours. Whose? If you are religious: God's. If you are not religious, then say so: your own. Every man to himself. Your child too. Teach him to know this. That he belongs to himself.

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Our innermost world is ours alone. It cannot be given or taken away. You are truly "ME" here. You have to respect that in yourself and love it. In yourself, in others and in your child.

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Have you ever experienced that you can only be patient if you know that something makes SENSE? Enduring something senselessly is not patience, but endurance. Clenched dentures are not patience. The patience of love - real patience - is a profound understanding of another person's worldview, beliefs, character and mere being. The realization that the diversity of life has some higher meaning. It's good that the other one is different! Even if it irritates me sometimes. After all, no two letters are alike. Whoever does not see this and is not amazed by it, his soul works like a woodcutter: he grinds everything into his obsession.

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Just as we don't allow anyone to touch our living wounds - only those who can heal them - the wounds of our souls should only be opened to those whose lasting (that is, permanent) love has become certain for us.

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God, give me one person, at least one person, with whom I will not be forced to defend myself. To whom I dare to reveal the secret code of my soul. The one I let into me: this is who I am, yes, with all my nonsense, confusion and sin!... Give me one person who truly loves!

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Angels, when they whisper, they can only speak to the angel inside you. If you don't have it, you don't hear it.

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I see you as a desirable teenage girl, and I see the old aunt stumbling with a cane, wearing false teeth, whom the ravages of time will shape you from - and I love both. This is how my heart sees it.

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If I saw you with my heart, I saw you very far and very high. I noticed something that the passage of years has not caught. Do you know that this is the only way a relationship can last? If we see each other with our hearts. "I love you" is not enough. I could love you with all my eyes. With my feelings, senses and mind too. Not enough. You also have to LOVE me. Like that, in capital letters. Rare these days. Very rare.

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As long as you believe that you are the victim of your fate and not the perpetrator: you are indefensible.

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If you want to live well, beautifully and sensibly, erase a single thought from your mind. It sounds like this: Everything has different reasons!

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All people are inherently flawed. Me too, you too. You think you're not "stupid"? I still love you. In that huge bag that I opened for you in my soul, all your bad qualities fit inside. I could list why you are not worthy of love until morning. I still love you!

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When you talk to another person, they enter your soul (and you into theirs), and you instantly recreate them here in your own magical world. (...) This is such a mysterious functioning of the soul that we know very little about. We all create a reality within ourselves.

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The condition of fulfillment is precisely the transformation of the being of the longing, hopeful person. The one who plants the seed of desire in us is one, and the one who harvests the fruit is another.

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To dream, to imagine, to play and plan freely with our strength, to hope and wait for fulfillment: the greatest joy. But realization is already a limitation.

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It's good to talk! To chat, cheerfully, deeply, honestly, so that what we didn't even know was inside us would finally come out!... We'll find out when we say it! (...) The greatest moment of our lives is when we open up to each other.

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No one sees what is, but what they imagine. Your eyes transmit an external image to the inside - but the creative magic power of your soul repaints and dramatizes the image; (...) you only let in "reality" filtered through your fears, hopes, memories, love and hate.

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I don't live my life in numbers, but in a single, ceaselessly pulsating process. My time is not divided into years, but into peaks and valleys. I live in one continuous current, I don't even look at the calendar, only what is happening inside me, and therefore I don't "look back" when I want to see my past, because what is important is here, with me.

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You can only fool someone who is mentally insensitive with a play. The "I only live for you!" - not enough. Live for yourself too! When you know this, your eyes shine differently. It radiates from your face whether you are in harmony with yourself or not.

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I can't love you if I don't love myself. The happiness of being "together" cannot be experienced by those who renounce their own.

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You have to develop a good relationship primarily with yourself. Because only what is inside you radiates outward. If you're cold inside, you can't give warmth to the outside either. Impossible.

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We have to shed a lot of skin before we are ready for a life situation.

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Are you asking when your sins are forgiven? When you can no longer commit them. Not until.

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You have, say, a (...) desire that you want to achieve. Just the way you are, it can't be yours yet. You are immature for it. In such cases, we see that fulfillment "takes time". This does not mean that you impatiently look at your watch and turn the pages of your calendar while nervously drumming your fingers on the table, but that you mature yourself into fulfillment.

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Our life: a string of pearls. Every day and every hour has a pearl on it. If they don't all shine individually, your life will be crap. Expecting that tomorrow or the day after tomorrow will redeem your present is false hope and self-deception. Because the day after tomorrow you are waiting for tomorrow again, and tomorrow for the next month and year - if you can't be present with all your heart and soul, fulfillment will never come. THE "THEN" IS NOW! Trust me!

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Be careful: happiness is not joy! Happiness requires many things: success, luck, money, carefreeness, the fulfillment of your desire, hope, love, longing. You don't need anything to be happy. What is there is also unnecessary. There is no attachment, no possessiveness, no thirst. Eternal lack is only in unhappiness, but in happiness there is no lack of anything or anyone. This is the state of your heaven.

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Most people like to talk and cannot pay attention to others. (...) Listening long, quietly and deeply to another person is difficult. That this time it's not about me, but about you. So that I'm not important now, only you. What hurts me, what's wrong with me, is not important. I give you my attention. You have my soul, my time - it's not easy.

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True love has two faces. The most beautiful is the one who pays attention to the other, the one who listens.

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You have to love someone a lot in order to feel that he is important now, not me. It takes a lot of sacrifice, because no one can say what's on their soul. It's hidden in the subconscious, and that's why he's talking about something else. You know why? Because he can't pay attention to himself either.

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Forgiveness in the language of the Bible means letting go, but as long as you are weak, you cannot let go of anything, because there is an unhealed wound in the place of your injury and it hurts. You won't forget it until you get stronger. True self-confidence is unbreakable.

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In the famous Broadway number, the proud woman sings: "I am, what I am!" - i.e. "I am who I am!" But that's not enough. If you take it upon yourself, it's not enough if you honestly say: "I am the way I am. Like it or not: this is who I am! If I have to, it's good, if I don't have to, it's not good, but I am who I am!" This is not enough, because a person must not only be what he is, but also become someone!

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We have many faces. We can also show it outwards, which is easier to accept. This is why our face gets tired in the evening, because its muscles are not moved by our inner self, but by the compulsion of external conformity.

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Delighting in transience and not only accepting but beautifying loss: the highest art of living.

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True sacrifice is not an independent act, but a consequence. If I love you very much, I can do many things for you (...), but not because I want to make sacrifices for you - but because I love you very much.

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Rain is beautiful, as are gray clouds. Walking in the fog is a pleasure, because it is mysterious, you don't know what it hides. It's like walking in a dream. There is a lot of sighing and sadness in the most beautiful music. In the most beautiful violin, there is more sorrow than squealing joy.

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Love the clouds and enjoy the storm! You also love the rain and the grey, rain-beaten puddles, just like you did when you were a child. Do you remember how you liked to poke around in them, much to your mother's annoyance? It was a greater joy than bathing in the sea today.

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I give and give. Everything that is nice to him, that he likes, that he needs. God needs something too. For what? To love you.

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I love you! I don't even notice that I haven't slept for weeks because of you, that I take care of you, take care of you, give you the best snacks, because it's only good for me if it's good for you. Because I love you.

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Until you are in love, you never feel that you are half a person, that you are missing someone! You think about him forever, you message him, you are with him in your thoughts. Someone - another person! - it carries with it your happiness, your peace, your joy, your soul, but also the meaning of your life.

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All love enters our lives in such a way that it robs us of our freedom. When we go into it, we can't do what we want, only what love wants.

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Be careful! When you think that you are always right and that you know everything best: you are in big trouble! You are rushing to your loss.

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Gentleness is the greatest strength. The rabbit is not tame, just a coward. Because he is weak. Only a lion can be tame.

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Your life is like that of the youngest child in the fairy tale: a long journey, a series of tests. They let you go poor so you can come back rich. They are waiting. They know about you and they love you. You live not only for yourself, but also for Him and for everyone.

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It doesn't matter if you exist or not - or so you think. You live under the delusion that you are just an extra on the world's giant stage. Whatever happens to you is completely irrelevant. It is not true! But as you feel in the depths of your soul - you are irreplaceable! Anyone who loves knows this. You are a one time wonder. Main character. Everything is decided in you. You have the spirit of God in you.

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Power makes us all dizzy because it is our original sin. No one is exempt from this. I'm not just talking about politics, but about our ordinary, everyday life. To always stay on top, not to fall below, only to win, to place my truth above the other: me, me, me, mine! And the strange thing about this "dizziness" is that whoever is in it does not know that they are dizzy. Like most lunatics, he has no consciousness of illness. He just feels right. Always.

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Often, we can only calm each other down, dispel our fears and release our mental convulsions with our bodies.

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We live in an unloving world, and if you fall in love with someone, you put yourself in danger of facing the storm. That you live against today's life.

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Don't be who others see or want to be - but who you see yourself to be.

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If the world around you has cooled down and life has frozen into ice, heat it inside yourself like a fiery little stove and spread the heat! You will see how many of us will come around you. Because we all get cold. And we gather where it's still warm.

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With too big an ego, a woman is unfit to create a home - and a man is unfit to find a home in it.

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When I'm in love, I think of you because I miss you. I see you and I miss you. I'll hold your hand and miss you. I hug you and miss you. I kiss you and still miss you. I hug you, you are mine, and after a moment of pleasure, I just miss you again.

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If there is love, the rest can be easily solved, but if there is not, then there is nothing. Then we just sew torn clothes and glue broken tiles. Not worth.

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I can't live without love. I'm afraid. I am bitter and hopeless. I'm drowning. I'm cold. If there's only one way I can do it - I'll run away. Of course, there are times when this is not possible. You have to stay. Even then, I look for the closeness of people who love me and whom I can love too. It might just be a few people. It's also a big word these days. It's like a working stove at the North Pole: I snuggle up next to it.

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You can never really get to know a person with just your mind. It also takes heart.

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You only see well with your heart and head - that's the truth. It is not by chance that we have two eyes. This is the only way we see reality plastically. The "third eye" - which, according to tradition, has become blind in us, and which was once in the middle of our forehead - was indeed a single eye, but it saw both emotionally and intelligently. It was not only a feeling, but also an understanding look. True love can't be just emotional, because then you don't know who you love. You are projecting into the other someone who is not him.

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Dare to love. Your incessant self-defense must be given up. You have to take off your armor and everything underneath, right down to your skin. The one who loves becomes defenseless in a sense. That is why we dare not love. We are afraid that we will expose ourselves, that we will be abused. They live back. Not once. A hundred times. And yet: it must be opened. However, only a strong person can open it! Who has nothing to fear. You can only love someone out of strength, never out of weakness. Only a strong person can love.

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I can't hide in you without missing you. I can't pull you close enough to stop missing you. I long for you, and sometimes I delude myself that I caught you like a bird, held you in my arms, that you are finally mine, but at the same time, I worry that you will fly away.

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Your faith is blind faith, self-deception, a mask that also covers you from yourself. You are not who you think you are. You see that often it is not you, but others who are right. They know better - unfortunately!

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Look up at the sky! Take a few deep breaths. Think - just for a moment - that you live in a Miracle, and there is a Miracle in you too!

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It is difficult to accept another person, live with him and tolerate his nature. Very hard. In fact, that would be a sacrifice. We should sacrifice our egos. Because the ego - although it longs for many things, it is incapable of love.

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True love - as pathetic as it sounds - is timeless! I love you in your girlhood as much as in your old age. It won't go away. It's a pity that we have grown old - but the fire has not died out.

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Life is both joy and pain. And as long as there is a soul in the body, we experience both. Serenity and sorrow. Meeting and abandonment. That "with" - and that "without". Only the dead do not feel all these, because they do not exist. Indifferent. There isn't. Only what is alive hurts.

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If you love someone who doesn't love you: forget it. Even if that someone is your husband, wife or mother. Forgive him, but forget him, poor man. I know it hurts - sometimes for a lifetime - but keep going!

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Those who live upward are strengthened by troubles, difficulties, and struggles. Those who live downward will be weakened by them and sooner or later they will crumble.

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A sure sign of alienation is when someone tries to fill the void that comes from a lack of love with words. That's why we fear silence.

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Everything changes. Only the center of your being, not your heart. Loyalty means that you see and live your life from here, from the still center. If you step outside, the vortex will already sweep you away.

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Loyalty is a hint of eternity in impermanence.

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Only the weak gnaw at their grievances. The strong one lashes out and doesn't even bother with the idea of ​​forgiveness. This is a very bare-footed philosophy, but it is true: only the weak in us are always hurt, the strong never. Where you are strong, they cannot hurt you.

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Cemeteries smell good - and people remember afterwards that they should have loved each other.

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When in trouble you suddenly pull the steering wheel aside without knowing what you are doing - your soul is present. By the way, there isn't. He dwells on the past or worries about the future.

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You are not only a character in the drama of your fate, but also the author. You wrote it yourself, and you still write and play it, non-stop.

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The butterfly is the future of the caterpillar.

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The "redemption" of the world does not begin with turning society upside down, but with radically changing myself.

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The hand that holds from above never lets go, but the hand that holds from below.

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For hard ice, the vapor is invisible. Maybe there isn't. Not just his sweet sister, but the same as him: water. They just live in a different reality. The ice cube, if it starts to melt and evaporate, may have a fear of death. The poor man thinks that he will become nothing.

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More cases fell into success than into defeat. There are few people who retain their modesty even after winning a battle. Most parties and good causes start to rot when they win.

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All people are revealed in success. Ideally, in front of you. The attraction of other people's gaze turns him outward, and he is exposed to the danger of starting to live in mirrors, of other people's expectations, and of being torn from his own inner roots.

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The problem is not that we are forever rushing somewhere, but that we are nowhere.

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Nothing hurts only those who don't love. Indifference has no nerve endings.

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There is nothing more than love. I love you not for someone else, but for you and me. I love you for our love.

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The one you love, you look up to. He sees not only who he is - but also who he should be. (...) This look, that is, the eye of love, belongs to the wise person who sees the most beautiful, true face in the other. He sees the moth in the caterpillar. She's in it, she just has to give birth. You have to tear off your caterpillar and spread your colorful wings. Seeing the "butterfly" in your partner or child is the eye of love. And not only in them: in yourself too! You're not ready either. You're not good "just the way you are" either. You have to work on yourself constantly. You still have to give birth yourself. Inside and out.

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If you really want something, you usually don't get it. Only when you let go of longing - then fulfillment comes. When you don't want and don't demand anymore. When you do your best - and then leave it all to God, to Nature, call it whatever you want. This is the secret of magic: to desire - and to let go.

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A woman cares about her appearance, because she knows that her true face is not the picture of her unkempt morning, but when she makes the most of it. When he paints himself, he begins to resemble the "butterfly" that lives inside him. (For the sacred ceremonies of great cultures, men also painted themselves so that the gods could see them: in such cases, they are more than they are. We have a festive dress and a festive soul as well.) This is how we are, not only with ourselves, but also with others.

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If you pay close attention, you will realize that most intellectual explanations are a posteriori. When the lava erupted and the irrational force emerged from the depths, then you begin to understand and organize it all. Reason usually remains a loser. He created an order, except life is messy. You understand: it is opaque.

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"I like you the way you are" are not words of love. You don't accept your garden if it's weedy, or your dog if it's honeysuckle, because if you love anyone, anything, you take care of it. You too.

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With the eyes of the heart, we look up in the other - and also in ourselves. The eye of the heart has double vision. On the one hand, he relentlessly sees what you are like. He sees your faults. On the other hand, how you should be! He smooths the messy hair from your forehead and tells you if you have been rude or rude to someone, and he is happy when you paint yourself beautiful eyes. He even likes it when you wear fake eyelashes and you don't squint at him. Here it is not only about the "eye of the heart" idealizing - but also about seeing a higher reality. Somewhere you really are more and more beautiful and better and nobler and more lovable.

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Sometimes a word would help, but I don't get it. Either because they don't pay attention to me, or because they have no idea that I miss them, or because they don't know what the word is that solves my problem.

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If you like to think about things in life, even notice that the essence always comes first, and only then the details. Even if the details are correct, the essence never comes together! Love me! Love me! You will solve the rest. Or you can bear it.

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We humans today are rarely able to accomplish anything. It can be anything: a good relationship, professional success, earning money or climbing the Himalayas. First, everything happens inside. Not when you want it - it's still easy. But when you see through: what you have to do for it, and you find in yourself the inexorable Wizard who will do it. No matter how hard, no matter how many failures, and no matter how much time it takes.

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You only understand the one you love. If you have a dog that barks, jumps and bites, you live happily with it - if you love it. You know what he's like: barking, jumping, biting - you love him with that. It's not good that it's like this - you still love it. But if you have a husband who doesn't bark, jump and bite, but sometimes covers the carpet with ashes, you're already on the ceiling and you say: I can't live with you! Why? Because you don't love me. When you love someone, you accept them for who they are. It would be better if it were different, but it's not such a big deal anyway.

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We never have to solve an external problem - but always ourselves.

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Most of your problems arose because you were the way you were. To get over something, you have to change. You can't stay the same, because then your problem will remain the same. You repeat, incessantly.

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If this look is missing from a relationship - that is, the look of the heart - then there is nothing to "overwrite" the other person's mistakes. Then comes the wish list: Don't ash the carpet! Don't smoke cigarettes! Give me the coat! Be more attentive, more polite! Let's divide who does the dishes and who goes to pick up the children! Don't stare at the television all the time! Sometimes listen to what I tell you!...etc. The other person can do everything, if you don't love him, it's in vain, and if he doesn't love you, it's also in vain. If you don't see each other with the eyes of the heart - everything is in vain. All psychological tricks, service regulations, education, requests, begging, orders, adaptation (...), education, goodwill, efforts are unnecessary. Nothing can replace the essence. And the essence makes up for everything. You have been vacuuming the faded carpet for many years, annoyed and grumbling, but still - because you love it! When he dies, you think, "I wish he'd come back and smoke another cigarette and ash it and even burn the carpet! It would be my happiest moment!"

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The sea of ​​life is moved by deep currents that have nothing to do with surface consciousness. Man has no idea that they exist, he thinks there is only what he knows and understands. Only at the first iceberg does he realize that his ship is not going where he thought it would.

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The extremely sensible and clever person just doesn't agree why things don't turn out the way he thinks! This is a big trap for smart people. They know everything but one thing: reality. It is not driven by common sense. Instincts, prejudices, inherited programs, feelings and emotions shape our lives, and unfortunately not our faith, but our belief - these are invisible and unconscious forces deep in our souls. But there are also invisible forces on high. Laws of fate, events that have to happen and that do not depend on you, or not only on you, but also on your partner, your child, your co-worker, your neighbor, and the world in which you live.

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You are much stronger than you think. Remember this! How do I know? From the fact that everyone is like this. Me too. In man there is a steam boiler that works on weekdays - and there is a nuclear reactor. We know the boiler and can handle it ourselves. Underneath, however, lie huge, divine powers - a nuclear reactor. It starts to work when there is a disaster, when you are facing a great test. If you can release this hidden energy in yourself, you will be cured of even the most serious illness, and you will get up from the biggest blow of fate. Failure, bankruptcy, divorce, illness, even fatal family tragedy do not get me down.

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I learned from my mother, who was a wise woman, a connoisseur of life. Especially a connoisseur of womanhood. He once told me that if a woman is looking for you, sometimes you have to accept the unworthy. Sometimes you have to lower it. You have to make small compromises. It's not allowed in big ones, but it is allowed in small ones. When I asked why compromises sometimes have to be made, he answered: "Because you get rusty in solitude. You get used to it. Your skin thickens, you become insensitive. You don't notice that you are slowly building thicker and higher walls around you, with no doors. That you believe you are alone of your own free will, but if you keep this state for a long time, it becomes a prison, and you lose in solitude what you sought in it: your freedom."

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You don't know that much about women's fighting style and men's? We are weak and we look to you for Strength. The maintenance, the dignity, the hard-to-get. Sometimes almost unattainable. That we don't have to take responsibility for you, neither emotionally nor spiritually - no way. Because we run away from responsibility, and if someone falls on our neck, we gently (or roughly) remove their arms from us, escape from their embrace - and we solve the problem.

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When did you manage to say what hurt you? When did anyone listen to you? When were you able to talk without complaining, but instead shared with those around you what really hurt you? And when did someone pay attention to you in such a way that they didn't think about themselves, but instead turned to you with all their love and intent to help? And did he know that he was helping you, even by listening? If you listen to someone, you make it easier.

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There is a complaint wall in Israel. The Wailing Wall. (...) There is no more heartbreaking sight than when someone talks to stones. He asks the stones. Cry your sorrows to the stones. It's still better than telling a human because we humans today are more callous than stones.

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Be strong, independent and free. Do not depend on anyone - depend on you, because you are the stronger one. And if not: be it!

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You are stronger than you think! Remember this if you want to win in life!

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You can want something, you can want it, and you can WANT it. There are dead ends in our lives when we hit the floor. You feel like you can't go on. "It's too hard. I can't take it" - these thoughts are swirling in your head. "Dead point" is a good word, because at this point something really dies in us: belief or unbelief. In whom faith dies: he gives up. In whom is unbelief: he continues and wins the battle.

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Sometimes you have to do things you regret. Maybe. Every encounter is good for something. The other is also human. Maybe not for me, but still: human. Maybe I can get something from him. Not what I'm missing, but something else that, if I won't be happy, at least I won't get rusty. Water is the most wonderful drink for a thirsty person.

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Two people can be connected by many things, but the least of them is reasonableness. Rather, it is a feeling of affection, love, and belonging. Sometimes it's a shared obsession, sometimes it's an alliance of interests. Feelings, desires, emotions, worries - for example, that you are afraid to be alone.

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You see everything differently when you love. The gray will shine, the weekdays will be a holiday, the name of the person who is important to you will be in capital letters. You look at your love, your child, your friend, your mother and father or anyone, even your dog, differently: you notice the miracle in them.

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You can only give yourself confidence. I say: step today, tomorrow and the day after tomorrow! Start, within yourself... and then you can run, and later you can fly.

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The basis of all faith is believing in yourself. Not in your goal, not in your ideals, not in your imagined future - but in yourself.

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Difficulties teach you that there is someone inside you for whom it is not difficult.

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With your hatred you hear the hater, with your fear the fearsome, with your meanness the mean, with your ambition the thirst for power, with your weakness the weakening, with your grief you hear hopelessness, but with your serenity you hear Serenity, with your strength you hear Strength, with your confidence you hear Trust. You receive the "broadcast" you tune yourself to, and your tuning creates your destiny. All forces, feelings and thoughts are in constant transmission. It's up to you what you take in.

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Everything starts with the first, magical moment - it enters your life in a gray disguise, as an ordinary event. You can't even recall it later. How did you meet? Usually by accident, in an insignificant moment. Our destiny does not come with a trombone, and neither do the protagonists of our lives like the prima donnas of operettas: in the spotlight, in music, accompanied by a loud choir singing that He is here, He has arrived.

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Why do we love sad stories? Why do we sometimes cry in the theater or cinema? Because we enjoy the fact that what is beautiful: passes. There is something touching in life's great moments, and poignant in the greatest. Don't suppress your sadness and don't be ashamed of your tears, because they are the most human of us.

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True self-knowledge is relentlessly accurate. He doesn't judge, but he sees.

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The wise man is said to live in the present. I say: in the future! What will happen is the miracle, the unknown. Love is good while it's new. To last a long time, it needs to be renewed every day.

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An event has a right to exist in your memories until you learn from it. Until you decipher the "Why did this happen to me?" secret. After that it is no longer needed. It should be shelved like a read book and never be dealt with again.

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Learn to let go, as you release a balloon looped on your finger into the wind: let it fly, let it belong to the sky, to the clouds. You can usually do this when you see something that you think is more important than the balloon and you want to grab it. Then you let the old one go. You don't even notice that your fingers are open.

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Many people live in a woman, and a woman can be all of them: (...) cook, waiter, cleaner, caterer, often economic manager, mother, counselor, healer, dear sister, grandmother, queen, even Queen, besides spiritual companion, good friend and psychologist. He knows when to scold and when to praise his partner. When to look up to him and when to pretend to look up to him. He knows what is male pride and male vanity, male intelligence and male stupidity. He can influence his partner with invisible means. She can be beautiful. If necessary, she can tame her husband like a wild horse and encourage him if he is a coward. She can be a witch, a wizard and Snow White, whom all the seven dwarfs were in love with. Companion of the man. His comrade in arms. His comrade. Accomplice. His companion.

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Most relationships fail because we can't stand each other's nature. It irritates us. Many people go into a relationship thinking "I'll raise you later". Forget it! We cannot change each other. Every habit sooner or later becomes a character, and it is very difficult to change it. You have to be born again to it, and that is very rare. You can do one thing for him: that you love him.

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Mere thought, self-suggestion, has no redeeming power. You can start it - but that's it. The healing power is only that which a person actually creates within himself with a great struggle - and realizes. Fear, anxiety, jealousy, guilt, selfishness, lust for power, and even the horror of death can only be truly overcome if a person proves that it is over in physical existence, in a real test of strength. I lived it. I experienced it. I'm over it! Only then can I say "I'm ready". Like Hamlet before his duel. You remember? "Readiness is everything." If his opponent had heard this sentence, he wouldn't be able to stand it. Why? Because such a person is invincible.